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re: Spin Off: Would you adopt a special needs kid?

Posted on 10/23/14 at 7:11 am to
Posted by Darla Hood
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Posted on 10/23/14 at 7:11 am to
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
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Posted on 10/23/14 at 7:52 am to
That's amazing. I'm glad this thread had a happy story in it with all the negativity that was in the beginning.
Posted by Rouge
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Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 10/23/14 at 8:31 am to
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Not a fricking chance in hell
that is very responsible of you, and i applaud you

the undue burden of your dad having to support another kid might just be too much
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 10/23/14 at 8:34 am to
I have a friend whose mom has 9 adopted special needs kids from China.

I don't know how she does it, but she loves those kids so much. It's amazing.

Her husband is a doctor, so they can afford it.
Posted by artompkins
Orange Beach, Al
Member since May 2010
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Posted on 10/23/14 at 8:37 am to
My wife would, for sure. Me? I'm trying to get rid of the one's we have now.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Member since Feb 2007
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Posted on 10/23/14 at 8:40 am to
I think the wealthy are in a great position to do this especially if one spouse can stay home without work responsibilities and the working spouse can be heavily involved in rearing the children when home.

Families that raise these kind of children have to totally re arrange their lives and become completely selfless (in a world that tells married people constantly to make themselves happy and leave the relationship if you aren't being personally fulfilled).

The parents need to be willing to give up literally 90% of the life they wanted or expected and sacrifice for the children—not just for 18 years but forever. that is BIG.

Having lots of money and one parent that can stay home is a HUGE advantage. its really tougher if those conditions aren't' there
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76176 posts
Posted on 10/23/14 at 8:44 am to
My daughter is special needs. Cerebral palsy and seizures.
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I'm not planning on having kids, I'm too greedy and I've got things I want and need to accomplish before I'll be ready to devote my life to anything else, especially a kid.

No, you should not adopt any kid. Def not special needs.
Posted by biglego
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Member since Nov 2007
76176 posts
Posted on 10/23/14 at 10:16 am to
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Posted by Darla Hood quote: In all cases you get the SS check.

Do you mean adopted special needs kids? Our son was profoundly mentally and physically handicapped and he never received a SS check.

We don't get a SS check either. We make too much money, so I've been told.
Posted by Slingscode
Houston, TX
Member since Sep 2011
1848 posts
Posted on 10/23/14 at 10:44 pm to
I did and thank god for the experience.
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