"Dating Expert" Brandon Wade - Love is a concept invented by poor people

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Believe it or not, my first kiss didn't happen until I was 21 years old.

When you're a teenager, appearances are everything, and I didn't have a shot. I was an incredibly shy and lonely boy.

In college, I'd watch my peers fall in and out of bed with one another, biding my time until it was my turn to be loved. Around 25, the tide changes for women. Popularity is no longer a factor, and women start to look for less superficial qualities in their partners.

While attractive girls were being wooed away by handsome men my age, there I stood, the lonely geek. Little girls grow up believing they will find Mr. Right who is wealthy, successful and handsome.

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I created my first dating website to meet women who I knew would be interested in a relationship with someone like me. And yes, to offer the financial incentive to give myself, and others like me, a fighting chance.

SeekingArrangement.com is a sugar daddy dating website where wealthy men seek out beautiful women. Unlike other "sugar" or normal dating sites, we encourage people to be unapologetic in their search for mutually beneficial relationships that fuel their ambitions and desires.

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I created this site because I was having a hard time adhering to the conventional rules of dating. I wasn't buying affection, but rather broadcasting my generosity to a potential audience of women that would normally be inaccessible to me. The best part is that the women looking for this type of "arrangement" could all be found in one convenient place.

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Feminists argue that sugaring reverts women to a submissive, "codependent" lifestyle. But the reality is, we are leveling the playing field. There is no room for feminism in traditional relationships as defined by society. A new generation of independent, strong-willed women has cropped up while society is simultaneously raising boys who fail to ever reach their full potential.

This website is empowering women, giving them the courage to go after what they really want.

They shouldn't be afraid of using the resources and assets given to them to find what they truly deserve from a relationship. Why would anyone choose to date someone who is subtracting from, instead of adding to, their life?

Feminists aim to be seen as men's equals. But being a feminist doesn't mean you can't be treated like a lady or complimented on your looks.

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We are asking people to look at their relationships and make their own rules -- create their version of a more perfect union. There are two reasons people get married: for love and for money. Ironically, these are also two of the biggest reasons why people get divorced. Marriage is messy, but divorce is even messier.

Yet marriage is not the only path to happiness or financial security. An arrangement can provide the same benefits as a marriage without the risk.

Love is a concept invented by poor people. Love at first sight that sends shivers down your spine is a fairy tale, and it doesn't last forever. Such infatuation must be transformed into a selfless form of love, empty of possessive expectations, for any relationship to endure.

If we are allowed to admit that, then think of the possibilities. Traditional relationships are based on possessiveness and selfishness. As I look at the future of traditional relationships, I see divorces, heartbreaks and broken families.

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