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Expressing condolences?

Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:31 pm
Posted by HubbaBubba
F_uck Joe Biden, TX
Member since Oct 2010
45707 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:31 pm
The 71 year old father of a business acquaintance ran a stop sign at an intersection killing himself, the female driver of the other car and putting his wife (the acquaintance' mother) in the hospital barely clinging to life.

What do you say to express condolences when it isn't someone you have a personal relationship with other than you occasionally do some business together? I don't want to ignore it, but also don't want to presume what I have to offer has any meaning to him.

Suggestions?
Posted by Geaux9
Mandeville
Member since Apr 2009
5173 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:32 pm to
Don't say "I'll keep him in my prayers".
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124270 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:33 pm to
Gift card to a restaurant
Posted by Ping Pong
LSU and UVA alum
Member since Aug 2014
5346 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:33 pm to
reminds me of the IT crowd

Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102974 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:38 pm to
Tell them about organ donation.
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18153 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:38 pm to
"I was so sorry to hear about your parents' accident" is all you need to say.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68268 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:42 pm to
give them a pamphlet for driving school
Posted by jose canseco
Houston via Houma via BR via NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
5667 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:43 pm to
Send a card...

Sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. If there is anything I can do to make this easier, please do not hesitate to ask. You will be in my thoughts. Sincerely...
Posted by tidalmouse
Whatsamotta U.
Member since Jan 2009
30706 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:44 pm to
I would keep it simple.

I'd just say that I'd heard what happened and that I'm really sorry.

No matter how it happened or who's fault the guy lost his Father and possibly his Mother.

I'm sure he's not looking for or wanting wisdom from anybody at this point.
Posted by Sampson
Chicago
Member since Mar 2012
24560 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:46 pm to
Tell him he's now flying high
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
55979 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 9:51 pm to
as the others say, just say something like:

" I am really sorry to hear about the accident that your parents got in. If there is anything that I can do to help, just let me know"

and then quickly move on to any business that you have to discuss...

basically, you want to acknowledge the grief, but not overdramatize the situation...
Posted by WaltTeevens
Santa Barbara, CA
Member since Dec 2013
10953 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 10:00 pm to
Pay for the funerals.


Or, at least call him and say "I'm really sorry about your loss. Is there anything I can do to help?"

It's always nice to know people care about you, even if it's on a surface level.
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56170 posts
Posted on 9/3/14 at 10:10 pm to
I was so sorry to learn about the accident, injury to your mother and tragic loss of you father.

Please accept my condolences.

From all accounts, he was a great person and will be missed by all who knew him.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do and don't hesitate to call me for anything.

Warmest Regards,
Hubba Bubba

PS: At least he wasn't around to be drowned by this anchor.
This post was edited on 9/3/14 at 10:15 pm
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