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Why do couples who met on Tinder try to pass it off as a legitimate dating site?

Posted on 7/14/14 at 7:58 am
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 7:58 am
instead of just a hookup site?

I met a couple over the weekend and they told the story of how they met on tinder. All the other girls seemed (pretended) to think it was a sweet story of two lovers meeting in a magical way.

i was just staring at them for a minute and when the girl stopped talking i asked, "Isn't tinder just a casual hookup site?" Her b/f started laughing under his breath. She tried telling me "yeah, but we were both just on there as a joke... and when i saw him, i knew he was different."

i think i just said ok and laughed. i think she got pissed at me which wasn't my intention. i was just curious.

Are any of you actually dating someone you met on tinder? do you try to pass it off as a legit site or do you just joke about it saying "we met up for sex and it was good, so i stayed"?
Posted by PhiTiger1764
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:01 am to
Was the chick not "willing to lie about where we met" ?
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
12171 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:02 am to
I have a buddy of mine that is dating someone he met on Tinder. I'm not sure how it works, but how is it different than any other dating site or is it just understood if you use it it's solely for hooking up?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32713 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:03 am to
i guess not, and i don't fault them at all for meeting online as that is (apparently) a common and generally accepted method now. i fault her for lying about the circumstances of the meeting/use of tinder and trying to pass it off as match.com or something.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:04 am to
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i fault her for lying about the circumstances of the meeting/use of tinder and trying to pass it off as match.com or something.


what is the difference?

seriously, I have no idea
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:04 am to
What's a "legitament" dating site?
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:06 am to
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What's a "legitament" dating site?


Posted by LSUZombie
A Cemetery Near You
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:06 am to
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i fault her for lying about the circumstances of the meeting/use of tinder and trying to pass it off as match.com or something.


Yeah. That's a real big deal.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32713 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:06 am to
from my understanding of the different sites (paired witht he numerous "tinder pick up line" threads on here) tinder is based 100% on the looks of the person. the pay sites only rely 94% on the looks and 6% on the profile. at least for the women.

im sure it is still 100% looks for men.
Posted by The Sad Banana
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:07 am to
I don't judge how people met. If they met on Tinder and it turns out they really do like each other, so what? Good for them.
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
13498 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:07 am to
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What's a "legitament" dating site?


I don't think there is such thing. On any dating site all you're doing is looking for attractive mates. Tinder just cuts out the bullshite.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81210 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:07 am to
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I don't judge how people met. If they met on Tinder and it turns out they really do like each other, so what? Good for them.


This.

I'd say I have no room to judge how anyone met their SO
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32713 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:07 am to
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What's a "legitament" dating site?


i dunno, but is tinder a dating site or a hookup site?
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:08 am to
I've found that it's generally only guys who view it as a hookup app.

Some chicks use it only to hookup, but there's not many of them. At least that is what my in-depth research indicates.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83583 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:08 am to
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the pay sites only rely 94% on the looks and 6% on the profile. at least for the women.


you don't believe this, do you?
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:09 am to
Is Tinder kind of like Craiglist Personals? Or Backpage?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32713 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:09 am to
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you don't believe this, do you?


97% looks?
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
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Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:12 am to
All dating sites are basically hookup sites
Posted by Brageous
Member since Jul 2008
107724 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:14 am to
it's more geared to be a hookup site, but honestly, I don't see much difference in Tinder and other sites...most guys are looking for arse and most chicks are looking for a ring just like every site
Posted by Swoopin
Member since Jun 2011
22030 posts
Posted on 7/14/14 at 8:14 am to
We had a big mixed-gender work lunch outting few weeks back and a guy coworker talked about dating on tinder.

I was kind of embarrassed for him because he clearly doesn't realize people are aware of the stigma.
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