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How often does your SO get mad over dumb shite?
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:01 am
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:01 am
And how do you deal with it?
Get off my case already
Get off my case already
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Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:02 am to Breesus
Too much in the past, I am hit it and forget it for the rest of my life.
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:03 am to Breesus
Never. <3
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:04 am to Breesus
Not since I PIIHB. J/k, all the damn time.
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:04 am to LouisianaLady
Yeah ok.
If you and captain dickbag never fight then either you are cheating or he is.
No doubt
If you and captain dickbag never fight then either you are cheating or he is.
No doubt
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:05 am to Breesus
Pretty much never. I got lucky, my girlfriend is cool as shite and one of the most laid back people I know.
In the past I have dated the type to get frustrated with little things often, and it really wears you the frick out. I have a lot of close friends with girls like that in their lives and you can just see them getting run down over time. It's like some kind of mental erosion. They become a slave to the nagging and eventually just give up and become a man-puppet.
It's hard to watch.
In the past I have dated the type to get frustrated with little things often, and it really wears you the frick out. I have a lot of close friends with girls like that in their lives and you can just see them getting run down over time. It's like some kind of mental erosion. They become a slave to the nagging and eventually just give up and become a man-puppet.
It's hard to watch.
This post was edited on 3/20/14 at 1:07 am
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:05 am to Kankles
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. J/k, all the damn time.
I know right. What do you do when you come home to the dog house?
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:06 am to Breesus
We don't fight. We might not like something.. and then we talk about it.
Because we aren't 12.
And regardless, it's never "dumb shite".. which is exactly what you asked.
Sorry your relationship sucks...?
Because we aren't 12.
And regardless, it's never "dumb shite".. which is exactly what you asked.
Sorry your relationship sucks...?
This post was edited on 3/20/14 at 1:09 am
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:07 am to NawlinsTiger9
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I have a lot of close friends with girls like that in their lives and you can just see them getting run down the over time. It's like some kind of mental erosion. They become a slave to the nagging and eventually just give up and become a man-puppet.
Yeah but be honest if you can. How hot is the woman and how good is the sex?
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:07 am to Breesus
If you're fighting over trivial stuff, it's almost always a proxy for some other issue that isn't trivial.
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:09 am to LouisianaLady
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Sorry your relationship sucks.
Nah my relationship is great. If you never fight about anything you aren't truly in a relationship.
Ask any couple whose been married over 30 years. They'll agree.
and ask Stan Grossman. He'll tell ya the same thing.
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:10 am to Breesus
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If you never fight about anything you aren't truly in a relationship.
This is what people who are in shitty relationships say to make themselves feel better.
If fighting and being nagged works for you and your relationship, great! But don't project that onto others who don't have to deal with it.
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Ask any couple whose been married over 30 years. They'll agree.
My parents have been married 27. They disagree but never "fight". She doesn't bitch over stupid shite and my dad doesn't either.
If they disagree, they talk about it. Like adults.
This post was edited on 3/20/14 at 1:11 am
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:11 am to Breesus
I've always subscribed to the idea that even the best sex in the world is a fleeting moment of pleasure and will still get old over time. Not saying I don't enjoy it, but as far as a long term companion, I think having someone you enjoy being around when the sex is over is the truly crucial element.
Unfortunately for my friends, they are addicted to the sex and will put up with a lot to keep it around. I don't think it's worth it, but hey, I guess that's just nature at work.
Unfortunately for my friends, they are addicted to the sex and will put up with a lot to keep it around. I don't think it's worth it, but hey, I guess that's just nature at work.
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:13 am to LouisianaLady
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My parents have been married 27. They disagree but never "fight". She doesn't bitch over stupid shite and my dad doesn't either
well. Define disagree
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:14 am to NawlinsTiger9
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, I think having someone you enjoy being around when the sex is over is the truly crucial element.
That I completely agree with. But it does mean there is never any tension
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:19 am to Breesus
Sometimes Jones might do something I don't like or sometimes I do something he doesn't like.. and we talk about it.. and that's it. It's one conversation. And it's generally less than 5 minutes and calm. We've never in our 2.5 years yelled at one another.
We don't bicker. Being around us is NEVER awkward because we aren't that annoying couple.
But when people say "not fighting isn't healthy", it's often people who have that awkward tension when you're around them because you can just tell how on edge they are.. someone waiting to get mad. And that's awful.
Not saying that's you.. it's just often what people who talk about "fighting being healthy" have.
Fighting is not healthy. Having disagreements that are handled normally are.
Your thread implies someone being mad at you over stupid shite..and you referred to the dog house, something I've never understood that crazy women do.
We don't bicker. Being around us is NEVER awkward because we aren't that annoying couple.
But when people say "not fighting isn't healthy", it's often people who have that awkward tension when you're around them because you can just tell how on edge they are.. someone waiting to get mad. And that's awful.
Not saying that's you.. it's just often what people who talk about "fighting being healthy" have.
Fighting is not healthy. Having disagreements that are handled normally are.
Your thread implies someone being mad at you over stupid shite..and you referred to the dog house, something I've never understood that crazy women do.
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:20 am to Breesus
Oh yeah, I think with any type of relationship you can run into that. I know if I don't get a fair amount of time to myself then I (unintentionally) turn into a dickhead.
But I'm honest with myself about that so I try to make sure I don't project on her or anybody else.
Monogamy is a hell of a thing, and sometimes I don't think it's natural for people at all. It takes some awareness from both parties to keep from stepping on each other's toes.
But I'm honest with myself about that so I try to make sure I don't project on her or anybody else.
Monogamy is a hell of a thing, and sometimes I don't think it's natural for people at all. It takes some awareness from both parties to keep from stepping on each other's toes.
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:22 am to Breesus
certain people are lucky to not have "bitch" for a gf.
my gf will bitch here and there but she is younger than me so i blame it on that. other than that its all good
my gf will bitch here and there but she is younger than me so i blame it on that. other than that its all good
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:27 am to Breesus
pretty much never
Posted on 3/20/14 at 1:29 am to NawlinsTiger9
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I know if I don't get a fair amount of time to myself then I (unintentionally) turn into a dickhead.
I do as well. Also when I'm tired I get frustrated very easily. I always make it a point to apologize and make things right before we go to bed though. One thing my parents taught me that I've taken to heart is that you never go to bed angry at each other and I abide by that religiously. Luckily my gf is a very understanding and patient woman.
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