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Jahel
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Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


met this girl Saturday, she lives about 4 hours away and was in visiting a friend of hers to see some band on Sunday.

We hit it off and end up staying together(yes, to the obvious next question)...but we were both pretty drunk.

She invites me to go to the concert, but I already had plans and tell her I can't go. Well I drop her off the next morning at about 9am at her friend's house and I give her my number(verbally as she types it into her phone), but I did't take her number because I left my phone at my place.

Now I'm thinking that I may have given her signs that I wasn't interested in her and she was only a hook-up, by declining her invitation and not taking her number.

I remember where she works and her position, so I found her work email.

This is the question: when or if I should send a message to her work email saying something along the lines of:

<attach Flower picture> (cheezy?)
Hey, it's "Jahel"
just in case you put the number in wrong
or was wondering if I really wanted to see you again.

my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX

hope to hear from you,
"Jahel"


1. should I do it?
2. how long should I wait before I do it?







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GeorgeTheGreek
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


fricking creep!





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BTHog
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


frick sending her an email.

Send her flowers with your contact information on the card.

email........ you fricking kids have no game whatsover.






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Pumpkins
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


If she likes you it's acceptable.

quote:

Send her flowers with your contact information on the card.


Such a great idea!! Guys don't do stuff like that often anymore so it's always a treat



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MrPappagiorgio
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


quote:

This is the question: when or if I should send a message to her work email saying something along the lines of:

<attach Flower picture> (cheezy?)
Hey, it's "Jahel"
just in case you put the number in wrong
or was wondering if I really wanted to see you again.

my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX

hope to hear from you,
"Jahel"


yes

you should do this







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TigerNutts
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


It has the potential to fall on either side of that line. It all depends on if she really liked you to begin with. If she does, it won't really even matter what it says, she'll be happy.





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OneMoreTime
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


That's not creepy at all man. You should definitely do that.





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Mear
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


quote:

so I found her work email


Creepy.






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Jones
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


did you give her the ultimatum that yall were now an "item" since you went on one date and that she is to never even look at another guy now?





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TigerPox
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


quote:

I remember where she works and her position, so I found her work email.
Creepy.

quote:

<attach Flower picture> (cheezy?)


quote:

Hey, it's "Jahel"
just in case you put the number in wrong
or was wondering if I really wanted to see you again.
Desperate.


quote:

1. should I do it?
No.
quote:

2. how long should I wait before I do it?
See answer to question 1.

I had a similar situation a few years ago where a guy actually mailed me a handwritten letter to my work....that was creepy and this is about the same level of creepiness....


ETA: What the hell, Jahel.




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WG_Dawg
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


Dear Lord.


First of all, attaching a picture of a flower is gay as shite. Second, you're coming across as WAY creepy with the "in case you got my number wrong, I want to see you again" nonsense.

The bottom line is- she has your number. If she wants to do something she'll contact you. If you want to subtly tell her she's on your mind just send her a fb friend request and send her a little message saying it was great meeting her or some shite.

And she lives 4 hours away, what exactly are you hoping to get out of this?






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LikeABaussCat
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


Send her a male stripper





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Pumpkins
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


Actually... my dad did something like this when he first met my mom. They'll be married 30 years next month!

So it can work. FWIW, she thought he was super creepy at first






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WG_Dawg
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


quote:

TigerPox


yeah, what she said.






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Pumpkins
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


Well... are you a creepy guy in general??

IMO, guys are creepy or they're not. If they aren't creepy, they can get away with most things and it just seems cute.






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CoCo311
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


Not creepy if she likes you. If she doesn't it's no skin off your nuts if she thinks you're creepy. If you sent actual flowers you'd definitely get laid again. I'd say Tuesday is an acceptable time, that gives you another day to see if she contacts you.





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Jones
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


i agree.

i do like how smoothe is an option though. nothing in what he described was "smoothe". its basically just a how creepy is this on a level of 1 to 10






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Pumpkins
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


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that gives you another day to see if she contacts you.


She won't. If she does, run!







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BTHog
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


quote:

Such a great idea!! Guys don't do stuff like that often anymore so it's always a treat


well I mean flower delivery is expensive anymore i get that, but in this instance, flowers definitely say "hey i'm interested in you" , a fricking email says "i want to hook up again"

so I would certainly spring for the $50 or whatever for flowers.






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Swagga
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re: Need a judgement call: Creepy or Smoothe?


quote:

Dear Lord.







ETA: NVM



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