Paging OB Woodworkers re: Staining Furniture

I recently purchased a couple inexpensive unfinished rubberwood tables. We would like to paint the legs and stain the “butcher block” top. I know parawood/rubberwood is not the most desirable or precious material, but I’ve read good things and its better than mdf or composite. It can be a bit finicky to work with, but if done right it should look similar to some more expensive hardwoods. The furniture will be used and Im not expecting it to look like an heirloom piece, just nice.

I’ve read up on a bunch of woodworking forums, but wanted the OB’s opinion, due to the “Neatest Thing” thread. I’ve got a ton of general questions. Pre-sealer? What type of stain? Etc. Explain it like I'm five.

Any tips/tricks/tutorials on wood staining that you can recommend?

Thanks OB.