I'd rather my wife cheat on me but still love me. We are only human and have desires that sometimes some people can't contain. I think I can refrain from cheating and have always done so but as much as I love my wife, I don't truly know what goes on inside her head like she does. I guess it's possible for her to want to cheat but still love me at the same time.
If she just comes to me and says she doesn't love me anymore, that's just horrible. I'd imagine that would be a worse feeling than being cheated on.
Not saying I'd forgive her but given the choice between the two, that's the one I'd choose.
This post was edited on 3/6 at 2:05 pm