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Women and coed recreational sports leagues

Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:17 am
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Atlanta, GA
Member since Sep 2017
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Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:17 am
I'm in a semi-competitive coed softball league in north Atlanta that plays on Wednesday nights. A couple of steps above beer league but still pretty laid back.

The league rules require at least 2 females have to be present and playing, one in the infield and one in the outfield. We have 3 girls on our team. 2 of them have not made it to a single game so far, and we've played 6. In our team groupme, it's the same ritual every Wednesday - an hour before first pitch, one of them will message "hey guys, so sorry, I'm not gonna make it todayyy!" and the other will follow suit with "me neither guys so sorry!" Keep in mind that the fee for the league was $100. We've had to forfeit 3 of the 6 games because we couldn't recruit any subs in time. We're one forfeit away from being disqualified for the playoffs.

I get it's mainly a casual outing and means of light exercise, but I still don't understand why women can't plan for a simple hour of their day on a Wednesday afternoon at 7:00, especially given the commitment and entry fee.

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Posted by ItSawGood
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2015
323 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:18 am to
Sorry for banging your teammates baw.
Posted by Death Before Disco
Member since Dec 2009
6176 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
I mean, the answer is right there. They are women.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166297 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
can't you just identify as female when needed?
Posted by geauxtigers87
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2011
25205 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
stop being such a woman and say something
This post was edited on 7/19/23 at 9:20 am
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Atlanta, GA
Member since Sep 2017
12856 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
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Sorry for banging your teammates baw.



You wouldn't want to bang these girls
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
93721 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
Something something Thaxtynn travel ball something something Brycdenn
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
pics so we can determine level of outrage
Posted by BrohanDavey
The Land Down Under
Member since Oct 2018
704 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
You’re just now finding out women generally suck at making plans?
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11102 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:19 am to
Posted by GeauxWrek
Somewhere b/w Houston and BR
Member since Sep 2010
4293 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:20 am to
quote:

You wouldn't want to bang these girls
Then why the da hell are you wanting them on your team?
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
4184 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:22 am to
It's 2023. Just identify a woman as needed.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260594 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:23 am to
I played on a coed team for a strip club, I feel your frustration

Posted by RolltidePA
North Carolina
Member since Dec 2010
3481 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:24 am to
quote:

but I still don't understand why women can't plan for a simple hour of their day on a Wednesday afternoon at 7:00, especially given the commitment and entry fee.


I'm going to guess that you don't spend much time around women.

Just kidding. I'm familiar with the phenomenon. I used to play on a coed indoor rec. soccer team that was 7v7. We'd have to have 2 women on the field at a time. We'd usually recruit 6 or 8 women for the team, just so that we could meet the minimum. Most weeks we'd have to practically beg for any of them to show up. At the time we were all single and it was on Wednesday evenings, not exactly a time when people when people had big plans.

Women are unreliable with this kind of stuff; it is what it is.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4598 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:25 am to
When you use the term, "semi-competitive coed softball league" it's signal you're taking softball way too seriously.
Posted by Stexas
SWLA
Member since May 2013
6006 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:25 am to
Semi-competitive my arse.



oh and...

quote:

disqualified for the playoffs.

Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
18286 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:25 am to
Y'all are turbo autists and trying to make a casual league competitive, thus scaring the hoes. They're flaking so they don't have to be stuck with y'all for an hour sweating them about dropping fly balls
Posted by TigerDeacon
West Monroe, LA
Member since Sep 2003
29305 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:27 am to
quote:

semi-competitive coed softball league


quote:

I still don't understand why women can't plan for a simple hour of their day on a Wednesday afternoon at 7:00


That's some unmarried, no kids signalling.


Since when is 7 the afternoon?
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68647 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:27 am to
same thing in my soccer leagues, which sucked because if you didnt have the girl, you just had to play down a person.

And it wasnt fair to the girls that showed up and had to play a full 90.

So basically, women ruin everything.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
12160 posts
Posted on 7/19/23 at 9:29 am to
Used to play in a lot of co-Ed leagues because they tend to be a little more laid back and it was the same crap. Always scrambling at the last minute to find enough gals.

…and if we miraculously had enough show up, the other team didn’t.

I find it’s best to get on a team with married couples. At least the husbands are responsible for dragging them along.
This post was edited on 7/19/23 at 9:33 am
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