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re: What was movie with Bruce willis as the taxi driver
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:02 am to GermantownTiger
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:02 am to GermantownTiger
1. How'd you get over it?
Found a willing partner and fricked the shite out of her
2. How long did it take?
Bout 10 minutes, it had been a while since I had secks
3. What would you recommend my doing?
Girls generally like you doing things for them first before spraying in dem guts
4. When should I try to date again?
Dating is what got you into this mess in the first place. Go to bars, pick up strange...profit
Found a willing partner and fricked the shite out of her
2. How long did it take?
Bout 10 minutes, it had been a while since I had secks
3. What would you recommend my doing?
Girls generally like you doing things for them first before spraying in dem guts
4. When should I try to date again?
Dating is what got you into this mess in the first place. Go to bars, pick up strange...profit
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:03 am to oleyeller
What's the difference in Tinder and Tinder premium?
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:04 am to Breesus
So the big question. Who has someone else in waiting ??
A monkey never lets loose of a branch until it has a grip on another one. This really applies for women.
A monkey never lets loose of a branch until it has a grip on another one. This really applies for women.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:04 am to GermantownTiger
quote:Understandable with time
Both of us had grown to resent each other, be miserable when together and fight constantly. I moved to a new area for work recently and we decided together she shouldn't come.
quote:WTF?
We were only married a year and a half. And I'm 28 years old
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:04 am to GermantownTiger
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Constantly questioning why it happened and looking back at old times when things were good
You'll get answers all over from here, but here is my take:
You'll never know why it happened, honestly. They rewrite their marital history so much that they believe it - to justify their actions. I bet you heard it was all your fault? Was there an affair? Bet that was your fault, too. Don't try to figure it out because you never will. Take this time to work on yourself and become the best GT you can. Because, in reality, that's all you can do.
I sign the papers in front of the judge tomorrow and ours is done after 10 fricking years. But then again, mine was so torn from the abuse she suffered as a kid (I never knew about any of it until after divorce was mentioned) that our marriage had no chance.
quote:
1. How'd you get over it?
Time. Yep, time. And getting your own life which leads you to not concentrating on her. Find a hobby. Go out. Whatever.
quote:
2. How long did it take?
Depends on the person, really. Everyone processes things differently. However, her ghost will always be there and you won't ever get rid of it. You just have to learn how to compartmentalize it.
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3. What would you recommend my doing?
As I said earlier, get a hobby. Join a group. Go to the gym - the punching bag helped me out a lot. I strongly suggest getting counseling of some sort. You'll need it. Trust me...
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4. When should I try to date again?
Definitely after the divorce is done - even if you are in a no fault state, just don't. It will come back to bite you. Once again, every person is different. There is nothing wrong with a coffee date or dinner. Going out works wonders for the soul, especially given the beating that we have taken during all this - it makes one feel alive again. It doesn't have to be romantic types, just go out. Some go immediately after divorce, some wait months or years...all up to you.
Hope that helps.
OH, and get the best lawyer you can. You will need it.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:05 am to GermantownTiger
quote:
We were only married a year and a half.
way to give up
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:06 am to GermantownTiger
quote:
Thanks for the real responses
The 1st couple of years are always the toughest. I know! You need to step up to the plate and work on your marriage.
Don't listen to all these wisecracks. Don't know how religious you are, but read..."Love Dare" and rent the movie "Fireproof".
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:06 am to GermantownTiger
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only married a year and a half.
this is a break up with legal strings attached.
year and half? you had no business getting married in the first place if that's as long as y'all lasted.
Go get some strange.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:07 am to GermantownTiger
You ignored the signs before marrying in the first place. 18 mo and you all tired of each other?
You can start dating anytime. If you mean start dating to find another spouse you may want to mature some more.
You can start dating anytime. If you mean start dating to find another spouse you may want to mature some more.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:08 am to GermantownTiger
quote:
We were only married a year and a half. And I'm 28 years old
If you still loved her, you should've given it more time to work through your issues. All marriages go through rocky times, especially when kids are involved. I've been married for almost 12 years and there have been a number of times where either my wife or I wanted to throw in the towel. I'm glad neither of us gave up because above all we love each other dearly.
Now, if there's no love then you did the right thing to move on. There's no reason to stay and fight for something when there's nothing to fight for.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:10 am to TbirdSpur2010
quote:
They'd "grown apart from each other."
In a year and a half
That's how you know that neither one of them had matured enough to even think about getting married. They might as well have been 17.
Anyway OP, go find someone else and grow up before you decide to get "married" again.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:11 am to Tigeralum2008
quote:
4. When should I try to date again? Dating is what got you into this mess in the first place. Go to bars, pick up strange...profit
This is the truth. Your marriage card has been revoked for at least 5 years.
New Life Motto: frick Bitches, get $$. You'll thank me later.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:12 am to Kafkas father
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They might as well have been 17
My wife and I got married when we were 17. That was 23 years ago.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:12 am to GermantownTiger
I'd be pissed if I bought an expensive wedding gift.
I was on the way to my cousin's wedding a few years back and my dad called me and said his fiancée was having cold feet. I asked him if I should still come. He said yes, but don't bring in the gift until the reception.
On a serious note, I had a short-lived marriage in my early 20s as well. It sucks at first just thinking that you failed at marriage. Time and drinking is what helped me. And good friends.
Good luck.
I was on the way to my cousin's wedding a few years back and my dad called me and said his fiancée was having cold feet. I asked him if I should still come. He said yes, but don't bring in the gift until the reception.
On a serious note, I had a short-lived marriage in my early 20s as well. It sucks at first just thinking that you failed at marriage. Time and drinking is what helped me. And good friends.
Good luck.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:12 am to GermantownTiger
No kids? A year and half?
Dude its a break up. Sign the papers.
Dude its a break up. Sign the papers.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:13 am to GermantownTiger
quote:
What would you recommend my doing?
Go to Vegas for the next one and spare family and friends from having to act like they want to be there
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:16 am to GermantownTiger
Dude. 18 months? I could see 10 years, but 18 months is just not trying. Marriage, kids, and a soul crushing job is real life.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:17 am to Iron Lion
quote:
My wife and I got married when we were 17. That was 23 years ago.
Congrats...that's very rare.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:17 am to Iron Lion
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wife and I got married when we were 17. That was 23 years ago.
Hold on
So.... You're like at least 30 something years old
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:18 am to GermantownTiger
Take up hobbies. Were there sports you used to like & don't play anymore? Work out. Do things to improve yourself. Change is hard. It's easier to stay & be miserable than it is to leave. Give yourself time & know the way you feel is normal.
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