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re: She Wants To Wait Till Marriage
Posted on 5/22/16 at 10:43 pm to LSUintheNW
Posted on 5/22/16 at 10:43 pm to LSUintheNW
quote:
You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first.
Just like you wouldn't buy a house without living in it first.
Wait...
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Posted on 5/22/16 at 10:44 pm to TigersHuskers
Be thankful. You have the opportunity to get to know the person inside of the body. You will be better prepared for marriage by learning about each other. Most people focus on sex, and get upset when they get married because they did not take time to get to know each other in a proper way.
Focus on learning about what each other likes/dislikes. When sex does come after marriage you can completely give/receive one another.
IT WILL BE WORHT THE WAIT.
Focus on learning about what each other likes/dislikes. When sex does come after marriage you can completely give/receive one another.
IT WILL BE WORHT THE WAIT.
Posted on 5/22/16 at 10:44 pm to TigersHuskers
If she's worth it, hang in there.
Posted on 5/22/16 at 10:49 pm to TigersHuskers
quote:
So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage. What does the OT think?
Tell her that is ok because oral and anal do not count, and then PIIHB.
Posted on 5/22/16 at 10:57 pm to ApexTiger
quote:that's cute
A woman that can be trusted is worthy of waiting for. God's way ain't easy but it doesn't have regrets
Posted on 5/22/16 at 10:58 pm to chryso
quote:
Just like you wouldn't buy a house without living in it first.
Just like you wouldn't buy a house without going inside it. Don't buy a woman without going inside her either.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 12:37 am to TigersHuskers
Post the voyeur nudes you're forced to take of her.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 1:39 am to ApexTiger
quote:
A woman that can be trusted is worthy of waiting for.
God's way ain't easy but it doesn't have regrets
bullshite.
It's pretty easy to regret that decision once you discover a lack of chemistry and connection when it comes to physical intimacy. It can be hard enough to remain monogamous for a lifetime, but it's even harder when you have no pre-established physical relationship that confirms your ability to satisfy your partner.
It is very possible that you can possess unrelenting amounts of amorosity and love for your partner, and yet still lack the ability to stimulate their sexual needs and desires.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 1:45 am to TigersHuskers
Congrats, buddy.
The fact that she respected your desires shows that she cares for you. And she did that without giving it up too soon.
You have a keeper as long as y'all are compatable.
Take note ladies. THIS is how you keep a good man. He respected her and wanted her enough to wait and she respected him enough to grant his wishes after she knew he was a serious suitor. Too many young women don't realize you don't have to be a slut to get a man.
So I guess all the people that said she was doing God's will before now believe she's a sinner so should burn in hell.
And all those guys that said move along always wonder why the chicks they meet end up cheating half the time.
All in all, young people have become clueless based on what TV has told them they should be.
The fact that she respected your desires shows that she cares for you. And she did that without giving it up too soon.
You have a keeper as long as y'all are compatable.
Take note ladies. THIS is how you keep a good man. He respected her and wanted her enough to wait and she respected him enough to grant his wishes after she knew he was a serious suitor. Too many young women don't realize you don't have to be a slut to get a man.
So I guess all the people that said she was doing God's will before now believe she's a sinner so should burn in hell.
And all those guys that said move along always wonder why the chicks they meet end up cheating half the time.
All in all, young people have become clueless based on what TV has told them they should be.
This post was edited on 5/23/16 at 1:49 am
Posted on 5/23/16 at 4:23 am to TigersHuskers
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Posted on 5/23/16 at 5:04 am to TigersHuskers
I would wait on it. But people who want to wait usually don't wait a long time to marry. That's why our culture waits so long to marry because they are all having sex any way.
If she is not good enough to wait for leave her and let a better man have her.
If she is not good enough to wait for leave her and let a better man have her.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 5:53 am to TigersHuskers
quote:
So I finally met someone new and Id like to stay with her for the long term, only issue is that she wants to wait until marriage. What does the OT think?
I think you have found an honorable woman. If you want to keep seeing her, keep seeing her. And if it works out, you will be rewarded for waiting.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 6:39 am to TigersHuskers
This is so dumb.
You need to move on.
You need to move on.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 6:48 am to TigersHuskers
In an ocean of whores, you found a good girl. I envy you. Hold on to her.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 6:50 am to ApexTiger
quote:
A woman that can be trusted is worthy of waiting for.
God's way ain't easy but it doesn't have regrets
lol, no. In relation to the OP, this is a bad post.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 6:54 am to LesMiles BFF
She's probably been ran through and the Op is a beta so he gets to wait. The only reason women cheat is because men allow the behavior. The same goes for women and douches.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 7:07 am to TJGator1215
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Genuine desire cannot be negotiated. Once you get past a certain point in the waiting game, what once had the chance to be an organic, sexual desire becomes mitigated negotiation of a physical act. Just the fact that you’re having to make a case for yourself (even covertly) is evidence that there are other factors inhibiting her capacity to be sexual with you. As I stated, barring a physical inability, this is almost always because of an unmentioned agenda on her part. It may be due to a concurrent boyfriend, it may be a natural internal caution, it may be that your process is telegraphing ‘beta’ to her, or it may be that she’s filibustering you while waiting to see if another, more preferable guy pans out for her, however, none of these are insurmountable if she has a genuine desire to bang you. Many a cheated on boyfriend knows this is true. In any circumstance, sex with you is not an urgency for her. If she’s perceiving your value as as high as it should be, she wont hesitate longer than a few dates to become sexual – and she certainly wont tell you she’s making you wait. Hypergamy doesn’t afford a woman much waiting time with a Man she sees as superior stock.
One of the more frustrating situations I often encounter comes from guys who’ve been OVERTLY told that they’re being made to wait for sex until some circumstance or criteria is met for the woman. The standard filibuster (or loss-leader as the case may be) usually comes with the reasoning that she “needs to feel comfortable” before she has sex with a guy. Even more distressing is the guy who was getting laid, only to be told the same thing by an existing girlfriend. If you find yourself in either of these situation there are a couple of things to bear in mind.
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Posted on 5/23/16 at 7:12 am to TigersHuskers
I think that the odds are, you never get married and you never get that pussy.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 7:12 am to GetCocky11
No 20 year old is worth that shite. People change to much from 20-30 to give up years of physical intimacy in the hoops this women won't end up breaking it off with you.
Posted on 5/23/16 at 7:17 am to TigersHuskers
Well..... how was she?
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