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Reddit user posts a big rant on anti-vaxxer that caused her baby's death
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:12 am
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:12 am
Can we post Reddit stuff on this site? If not, feel free to delete mods.
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I'm sitting alone drinking to much again and just need to get this off my chest. Three years ago I had a baby girl, her name was Emily and I loved her more than anything in this entire fricked up world. She was a mistake and I'd only been getting my shite together when I found out I was going to have her. I spent a long time thinking over whether or not I should have her or just abort her because I wasn't bringing her into a good place, but in the end I planned things out and did everything to make sure I could afford her and we wouldn't be living in poverty. I did everything I could for my baby with doctors visits and medicine and working a shite retail job at 8 months pregnant all by myself just so I could bring some happiness into my life. she was born in October and was so so beautiful. I'd messed up a few things in my life but I wasn't going to mess up with her if I could help it.
Then when she was 8 months old, too young yet for an mmr shot? she got sick. She was sick for a while and I'd never seen anything like it. I took her to the doctor. She was in the hospital and she looked so bad, she was crying and coughing and there was nothing I could do. I felt like the worst mother in the world. After I got her to the hospital she got worse, got something called measles encephalitis, where her brain was inflamed. I hadn't believed in god in years but you better believe I was praying for her every day.
She died in the hospital a week or so later. I held her little tiny body and wanted to jump off a bridge and broke down in the hospital. The nurses were sympathetic and I was, well I made a scene I'm pretty sure.
I found out later via facebook of fricking course that the neighbor I'd had watch my baby was an anti-vaxxer and had posted photos of her kid sick and other bullshite about how he was fine.
He was fine? He was FINE? My kid was DEAD because she made that choice. I went over and talked to her and she admitted he'd been sick when she'd had my kid last but didn't think much of it. I screamed at her. I screamed and yelled and told her the devil was going to torture her soul for eternity you god loving count because she took my baby from me. I'm sure I looked crazy, at the time maybe I was. I'm crying writing this now, and in my darkest moments I'd wished her kid was dead and it makes me feel worse.
I'd like to say I'm doing better but I'm really not. I'm alive, going day to day, trying to be the person I wanted to be for my kid even if my little Emily isn't here anymore. That's the only thing keeping me going anymore. I don't have anything else left.
Please vaccinate your kids, so other moms like me don't have to watch their baby die. It's not just your choice only affecting your kid, you are putting every child who for some reason hasn't gotten vaccinated in SO much danger. Please please please for the love of god please vaccinate.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:13 am to GetCocky11
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I loved her more than anything
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She was a mistake
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:15 am to GetCocky11
Vaccines still have some issues but the FDA doesn't care.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:15 am to GetCocky11
Read it earlier this morning. Seems fake.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:15 am to GetCocky11
damn
but this is why you might want to research who watches your kids a bit more, no?
but this is why you might want to research who watches your kids a bit more, no?
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:16 am to colorchangintiger
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Read it earlier this morning. Seems fake.
Why? Was it on CNN?
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:16 am to MorbidTheClown
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MorbidTheClown
Look, coming from one a-hole to another. You can have have a kid accidentally and still love it more than anything.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:16 am to MorbidTheClown
Yes - sometimes mistakes are the greatest thing that has ever happened to you.
My son wasn't planned. My daughter was only 6 months old and I had just been laid off when we found out about him. Turns out to have been the best thing to ever mistakenly happen to me.
My son wasn't planned. My daughter was only 6 months old and I had just been laid off when we found out about him. Turns out to have been the best thing to ever mistakenly happen to me.
This post was edited on 1/11/17 at 8:18 am
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:17 am to UF
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Read it earlier this morning. Seems fake.
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Why? Was it on CNN?
I checked Buzzfeed and didn't see it there, so I figured it was probably real.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:17 am to SidewalkDawg
referring to your kid as a mistake isn't ok.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:18 am to MorbidTheClown
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referring to your kid as a mistake isn't ok.
My parents called me "the mistake" my entire life
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:20 am to MorbidTheClown
quote:I would say "accident" or "unexpected" are more appropriate terms, but "mistake" is often, if not incorrectly, used to describe an unplanned pregnancy.
referring to your kid as a mistake isn't ok.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:21 am to buckeye_vol
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I would say "accident" or "unexpected" are more appropriate terms, but "mistake" is often, if not incorrectly, used to describe an unplanned pregnancy.
Accidents are for married people who have jobs and frick on birth control.
Mistakes are people with no money who make poor life decisions having a child.
Kudos to her for trying to do right by her daughter though.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:22 am to MorbidTheClown
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referring to your kid as a mistake isn't ok.
People aren't referring to the child as a mistake....the conception of the child was the mistake.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:23 am to LSU316
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People aren't referring to the child as a mistake.
false. read the OP. "she was a mistake".
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:24 am to SidewalkDawg
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Mistakes are people with no money who make poor life decisions having a child.
There's over 15 million children living in poverty, you're telling me there were 15 million mistakes?
Only people that have their shite together are allowed to bring a child into the World?
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:25 am to MorbidTheClown
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false. read the OP. "she was a mistake".
.....because people write and say exactly what they mean all the time.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:26 am to ThatMakesSense
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Only people that have their shite together are allowed to bring a child into the World?
"allowed" is the wrong word
"should" is the proper word, unless you want more children born into poverty
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:27 am to GetCocky11
Even if the vaccine was a risk for autism, which it clearly isn't, it would still be worthwhile to take it. These people who say otherwise have never watched a kid die of whooping cough, measles, mumps, etc.
shite, when the polio vaccine first came out it was a live virus vaccine and they told you when you took it that you had a 1/1000 chance of contracting polio from taking it. People still lined up for the damn thing. Why? Because they had seen kids dead, maimed, crippled, and stuck in iron lungs as a result of the disease and knew that the risk from the vaccine was infinitesimal in comparison to the real risk of polio.
shite, when the polio vaccine first came out it was a live virus vaccine and they told you when you took it that you had a 1/1000 chance of contracting polio from taking it. People still lined up for the damn thing. Why? Because they had seen kids dead, maimed, crippled, and stuck in iron lungs as a result of the disease and knew that the risk from the vaccine was infinitesimal in comparison to the real risk of polio.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 8:30 am to ThatMakesSense
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There's over 15 million children living in poverty, you're telling me there were 15 million mistakes?
Only people that have their shite together are allowed to bring a child into the World?
Some of you guys get way too emotional about things.
You gonna sit there and tell me that the world wouldn't be a better place for kids if their parents waited until they had their shite together before having them?
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