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Parents of the OT: Do you tell your children how much you make?

Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:01 am
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
18025 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:01 am
Read this article in the New York Times:

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One day, he stopped by his local Wells Fargo branch in Encinitas, Calif., and asked to withdraw his entire monthly salary in cash. In singles. It took 24 hours for the tellers to round up that many bills, so he returned the next day and took away the $100 stacks in a canvas bag.

His oldest son, Daniel, who was 15 at the time, remembers the moment his father walked into the house and dumped the $10,000 or so on a table. “It looked like he had robbed a bank,” he said.

After a pause to let it all sink in, Mr. Parker began peeling off bills. He told them about taxes, set aside money for a tithe to their church and made a big pile for the house payment. The singles piled up for soccer and scouting and hamburger night. By the end, there wasn’t much left over. “I was trying to make as big of an impact as I could, and I definitely had their attention,” he said recently.


This sounds interesting. I'm not sure my kids really understand. They know about taxes and bills, etc., but this might get their attention.

This post was edited on 1/30/15 at 9:05 am
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47474 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:03 am to
My kids have a solid understanding of money, even the youngest at 5.

My older two know I slang pizza at night to help pay for private schooling etc. They know houses and cars cost the most and shite. They also know to order off the $1 menu when I have all 4 together. makes me happy.

But they also know that my second job is reason we can go to beach, do fun shite, and such. So they view it as COOL and not 'broke arse dad'.
This post was edited on 1/30/15 at 9:05 am
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:04 am to
It took them 24 hours to "round up" $10,000 in hundreds?
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
18025 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:06 am to
quote:

It took them 24 hours to "round up" $10,000 in hundreds?



I think meant 10,000 in $1s, wrapped in $100 packs. That's how I read it.
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:06 am to
I don't tell anyone how much I make.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83554 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:07 am to
you could do this exact same thing with just $100

just use percentages...

Posted by RandySavage
Member since May 2012
30831 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:07 am to
Why is it such a taboo subject?
Posted by Forkbeard3777
Chicago
Member since Apr 2013
3841 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:07 am to
I haven't, but I'm sure they have an idea. Yet, they don't realize how much I come home with after taxes, their tuition payments, bills, etc.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
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Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:07 am to
I doubt my 5 and 2 year old care much
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
18025 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:08 am to
quote:

I don't tell anyone how much I make.



Neither do I. However if you type How much does a "my job title" make, I am $200 above the national average, so it can be found. The article alludes to this.



Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:08 am to
What, so she can laugh at me?
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
18025 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:09 am to
quote:

you could do this exact same thing with just $100

just use percentages...


And you could do the same thing with no cash, just a pad and paper. But the question is - would you tell your teenage children what you make?

Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17218 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:10 am to
So this guy makes 120k a year and is still Bitching about money though
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83554 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:10 am to
quote:

would you tell your teenage children what you make?


nope

if he/she ever asks it will be either "enough" or "not enough"
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:11 am to
quote:

Parents of the OT: Do you tell your children how much you make?



absolutely not.

We teach our children the value of a dollar but we also dont make a big deal about money.


For you parent that do tell your children how much money you make.....know that they are also telling other kids at school or in the neighborhood, and those kids are telling their parents.

Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:12 am to
I think you are right, I am hungover and my brain hurts.
Posted by Raleigh Tiger
Raleigh, NC
Member since Oct 2003
614 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:12 am to
Yes, my son knows how much I make. He also knows how much I have in savings and my investments and where they are at. Never know when something might happen to my wife and I.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:13 am to
my 7 year old thinks I make $100. Thats all she knows.
This post was edited on 1/30/15 at 9:13 am
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
25582 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:13 am to
People are too nosy these days. The only person I would tell what I make would be my spouse or if I was trying to get a new job.

I don't really see a reason to tell anyone else.
Posted by PeepleHeppinBidness
Manchester United Fan
Member since Oct 2013
3553 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:13 am to
quote:

So this guy makes 120k a year and is still Bitching about money though



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