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Page 6 UPDATE: Baby is 5 months old.. waking up every time we put her down

Posted on 4/7/20 at 12:56 am
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
37584 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 12:56 am
What
The
frick
Do
We do



The last 3 weeks have been a major “schedule” shift with the baby’s mom bring home from work. The last 3 nights, she’s up all hours of the night.

I know we fricked up majority by rocking her to sleep every time she gets fussy, but we are rookies. She goes to sleep at 8, wakes up at 9, we rock her back to sleep, she wakes up when we put her down, repeat x 20. She’s currently sleeping her longest in 5 hours.. and it’s only been 5 minutes of sleep

Seriously, what the hell do we do. Thankfully neither of us have to drive to work with this virus lock down, but coffee and energy drinks can only do so much.

What’s this BabyWise thing? I’ve seen it mentioned a ton. My wife probably won’t be able to handle the cry it out method, but I’m fully on board
This post was edited on 4/19/20 at 6:33 pm
Posted by Nono
Member since Nov 2017
4820 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 12:57 am to
Get a nanny with big boobs
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
37584 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:00 am to
That’s not an option at this point
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:01 am to
Sounds like insanity is your only option at this point. Prayers sent. Oh, and let her cry it out. The wife too.
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
37584 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:02 am to
Posted by CrazyJoeDivola
Member since Jan 2013
592 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:03 am to
Check for acid reflux, we had to let ours sleep in a car seat for a while to help with this.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:05 am to
If I added a baby to this insomnia, I would actually need meds. Have you tried driving her around? Babies seem to like car rides.
Posted by Tigerbait337
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2008
20535 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:06 am to
Brother, the cry it out method is the way to go. If the Mrs. thinks it’s cruel, explain to her that if the kid is fed and dry, it needs nothing else. The kid is taking advantage of you and expecting you to come get her. My kids’ pediatrician recommended it.

The kid realizes that you aren’t coming into the room and exhausts itself back to sleep.

Start the crying it out method now. If you don’t, the problem will never end. (Baby will learn that you come running every time it cries and start using it as a tool).
This post was edited on 4/7/20 at 1:09 am
Posted by Tigerbait357
Member since Jun 2011
67928 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:09 am to
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10311 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:17 am to
Car rides and swaddling help a lot. Be careful about leaving a baby in a car seat not in a car, because they get extra hot and can sometimes cause breathing/suffocation’s issues.
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
61928 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:20 am to
Congratulations on Parenthood. Looking back this is a very small battle
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
28708 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:21 am to
quote:

Brother, the cry it out method is the way to go. If the Mrs. thinks it’s cruel, explain to her that if the kid is fed and dry, it needs nothing else. The kid is taking advantage of you and expecting you to come get her. My kids’ pediatrician recommended it.

The kid realizes that you aren’t coming into the room and exhausts itself back to sleep.

Start the crying it out method now. If you don’t, the problem will never end. (Baby will learn that you come running every time it cries and start using it as a tool).
All of this, especially the parts about referring to the child as "it". Crying it out is easier on the mother if you can convince her that the child is not a human being.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
28708 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:22 am to
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Tigerbait337
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Tigerbait357
WTH guys?
Posted by Chappy
G-Town
Member since Jul 2007
3407 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:22 am to
We had this problem with our second child. We discovered he wanted to be swaddled tight. Your baby likely feels less pressure when you put her down. Try swaddling a little tighter, carefully

Good luck. Mine is 16 now and it feels like yesterday. As odd as it may sound, enjoy this time.
This post was edited on 4/7/20 at 1:24 am
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 1:22 am to
quote:

All of this, especially the parts about referring to the child as "it". Crying it out is easier on the mother if you can convince her that the child is not a human being.


I needed that laugh
Posted by geauxtigers810
baton rouge
Member since Jun 2004
523 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 2:39 am to
White noise app pink noise on full blast
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
31727 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 2:43 am to
Dear god let her cry it out. I made the mistake with my now two year old who sleeps with us every night. We have a 5 month old that will not be getting the same treatment. Her schedule was good but I’m starting to see regression and desire for us to hold her to sleep. Don’t give in. Let them learn to put themselves to sleep
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164137 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 2:44 am to
Put a little whiskey in the bottle before bed.
Posted by rich4pres
Knoxville
Member since Dec 2016
9773 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 4:35 am to
Are you burping the baby regularly? Our baby would never sleep more than a couple of hours at a time and it would turn out the baby was usually either still hungry or wanting to be burped most of the time.
Also, since the baby is five months old the baby may be teething for the first time. If so, call your doctor to see what he recommends.
This post was edited on 4/7/20 at 4:37 am
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
29389 posts
Posted on 4/7/20 at 4:53 am to
You aren’t bad parents.

Could be reflux, growth, beginnings of teething, the Devil, etc.

Sleep is overrated as a new parent.
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