re: Monday or Thursday for a second date, i.e. what does a date on Monday mean?

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She said Monday or Thursday works for her (she's going out of town that weekend). Which day is better?

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What world do I live in? WTF

The best day is the day you want to bang her. It isn't her decision...ever. You will go out with her when YOU are free.

You're not off to a good start, champ.

If she's like me, it means she is only available then.

I have my daughter 50% of the time so it's not unusual for me to have a Monday date.

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I hope you're right.

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Damn, man... Just don't go.

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You see where am I going with this. I've been approaching this as if it's a test

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Why would you want to be with a girl who "tests" you on a 2nd date. Just go whenever you want to see her. You're clearly a Monday guy. Maybe she's a Monday gal, maybe not. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out but that's probably for the best.

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Why would you want to be with a girl who "tests" you on a 2nd date.

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That's a good point. She's probably not even testing me. I'm just an idiot in a cubicle with too much time on his hands at the moment.

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You see where am I going with this. I've been approaching this as if it's a test. It could go either way. She likes me enough to go out on Monday. Or she wants to see if I'm desperate enough to go out on a Monday.

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It could be. But you could always flip the script, and say you have plans on Thursday already. So she sees you as having a life. But you like her enough to not regroup on a monday.

I think you are probably overthinking it. If she is really doing a test on you, chances are you don't want to date her anyway.

Regroup




Mother frick people!


Recoup

The word is recoup.

How can one person regroup?


ETA: unless he's got a date with a T-1000

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You seem wise. I feel like I'm receiving sound advice from the man in your avatar picture who is coincidentally from the same state in Australia as this girl I'm talking about.

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i haven't had a 2nd date since 1993. So maybe don't listen to me.

eta: I have been married since 1997, and dating the same woman since March 30th (a weds date) of 1993. Our 2nd date was the following Friday, where we went and saw a tim robbins movie.

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I want to go out on a second date with this girl next week. She said Monday or Thursday works for her (she's going out of town that weekend). Which day is better?

Everyone hates Mondays. I don't like to usually do shite on Monday. Would it be lame to go on Monday or does it show we are both eager to hang out or that we don't give a shite?

What does a Monday night mean?

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Are you 12? Do you only have the weekend to go out on dates? It means a combo of the following:
1. She is planning on being on the rag and doesn't want to give you blood wings
2. She is going out of town for the weekend and wants to see you before hand
3. She is a slut and wants some D during monday night wrestling
4. You are a beta for asking us and she is just wanting a free dinner.


Take her out on one those nights and show her a good time. She will remember when she gets back and show you a good time or she is just wanting a free meal out of it and is banging some other guy. In which case you are not geing boned either way but atleast this way you don't have to sit at home by yourself that night.

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Are you 12? Do you only have the weekend to go out on dates? It means a combo of the following:
1. She is planning on being on the rag and doesn't want to give you blood wings
2. She is going out of town for the weekend and wants to see you before hand
3. She is a slut and wants some D during monday night wrestling
4. You are a beta for asking us and she is just wanting a free dinner.


Take her out on one those nights and show her a good time. She will remember when she gets back and show you a good time or she is just wanting a free meal out of it and is banging some other guy. In which case you are not geing boned either way but atleast this way you don't have to sit at home by yourself that night.


I love this message board.

And yes, mentally I am probably on par with a 12 year old.

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Then don't laugh when you touch her boobs