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Michigan high school students protest school’s removal of their friend’s memorial

Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:48 pm
Posted by trom83
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2013
4724 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:48 pm


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BELLEVUE, Mich. — Gavin Jex’s good friend Hunter Bailey took his life on April 1, just weeks after his 17th birthday. He didn’t get a chance to see him that day, nor the day before. And there’s so many things he wanted to tell him. So he and other students wrote them down.

“We wrote on a pole for our friend because he parked right next to it and he was there every single day,” said Jex during an interview across the street from Bellevue High School. “We just wanted to give our last words to him.”

Messages like “We’ll miss you” and “Fly high” were written all over the base of the pole where Bailey use to park. Jex said students and even a few teachers scribbled personalized messages during a vigil that over 250 people from the community attended during spring break. He noticed the school's superintendent, John Prescott, wasn't at the vigil. He also noticed, like many other students, that the messages were painted over the next day.

“The parents were livid, most of the teachers were extremely upset,” said Jex. “It helped us a lot in the moment and then they do that, it just takes it all away.”

Jex added that the school also installed a trail camera in the parking lot. It pointed directly at the pole but was immediately taken down it because parents were angered by it, he said. Nonetheless, students re-wrote their messages on the pole. And the next day, they were painted over again. So Jex approached the superintendent.

“I asked the superintendent what his reasoning was for painting it over,” said Jex about his 20-minute conversation with Prescott. “He just said that he needed an excuse to paint them anyways.”


This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 3:50 pm
Posted by ProjectP2294
South St. Louis city
Member since May 2007
70097 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:50 pm to
So they want to be able to deface property because they're sad?
Posted by craigbiggio
Member since Dec 2009
31805 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:50 pm to
Wrong board? Or did Lebron wear a shirt with this guy's name on it something?
Posted by trom83
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2013
4724 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:52 pm to
Wrong Board.

Sorry. Thought I had clicked OT.
Posted by arseinclarse
Algiers Purnt
Member since Apr 2007
34407 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:53 pm to
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he needed an excuse to paint them anyways


Posted by ShaneTheLegLechler
Member since Dec 2011
60119 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:57 pm to
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He just said that he needed an excuse to paint them anyways


holy shite
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
145080 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 3:57 pm to
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“He just said that he needed an excuse to paint them anyways.”
well, good luck in your job search
Posted by ForkEmDemons
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since May 2014
2235 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 4:00 pm to
That superintendent sounds like a major A-hole.

Sounds like one of those administrators who don't care about students and is simply on a power trip and there to collect a paycheck. Worked under someone like that and it was pretty misreable.

Could have easily acted like an adult and talked to grieving students and found a solution and way to honor their classmate instead of going on a power trip.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 4:01 pm
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 4:01 pm to
Daaaaamn
Posted by ShaneTheLegLechler
Member since Dec 2011
60119 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 4:02 pm to
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Sounds like one of those administrators who don't care about students and is simply on a power trip and there to collect a paycheck


should have gotten into a career where you actually make money

Put something up on the post that everyone can write on, and repaint over the actual posts
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 4:03 pm
Posted by arseinclarse
Algiers Purnt
Member since Apr 2007
34407 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 4:04 pm to
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Could have easily acted like an adult and talked to grieving students and found a solution and way to honor their classmate


Posted by lionward2014
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2015
11701 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 4:05 pm to
I mean they aren't spray painting graffiti on the side of the school building.

I don't see how any rational person could justify not letting the kids express their grief like this. I can see if they were using profanity, but if the messages were as portrayed in the article, there was absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Posted by ForkEmDemons
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since May 2014
2235 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 4:06 pm to
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should have gotten into a career where you actually make money


Most Superintendents make a pretty decent salary.

And I got out of education a long time ago. Pay wasn't THAT bad, just had to be responsible. With that said, I do not regret leaving teaching.

Totally agree, paint over post and leave something they can write/express grief on, not a hard concept.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 4:08 pm
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
21828 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 7:23 pm to
Grieffiti is out of control
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 7:25 pm
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
19675 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 8:44 pm to
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He just said that he needed an excuse to paint them anyways.


Posted by Choupique19
The cheap seats
Member since Sep 2005
61758 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 11:01 pm to
Most schools will not have a "memorial" for students that commit suicide. It's not to be cruel to the grieving friends, they just don't want copy cat suicides after another student sees how much attention the student who killed themselves received.
Posted by jwall3
Member since Jun 2008
3029 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 5:15 am to
This is the correct answer
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