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re: Just found out my best friend is cheating on his fiancee *Upd8 it happened again

Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:38 am to
Posted by trom83
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2013
4724 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:38 am to


Don't rat your friend out
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
70869 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:39 am to
If you're single and she's hot, make sure she finds out without your fingerprints being on it.

Drop the friend. If he treats his fiancee that way, don't be surprised if he knifes you in the back at some point.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34988 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:40 am to
quote:

He's actually cheated on her in the past


Then she should know he's probably doing it again with her 5 hours away. I'd leave it alone.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
21231 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:41 am to
Just be covert about it. You can simply let her know, without her knowing where it came from. It is the right thing to do for both sides.

Do not worry about a friendship. We are men, best friends is for teenage girls to worry about.
Posted by El Es Shu
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2008
609 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:43 am to
How do you know?
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29472 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:43 am to
Force him to share the poon

Posted by Kingwood Tiger
Katy, TX
Member since Jul 2005
14162 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:45 am to
I'd talk to him first, and if he doesn't break it off with the fiancee, find another friend.
Posted by Slingin Pickle
Fancy side of the North Shore
Member since Jun 2008
3013 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:47 am to
It's not cheating if he's not married
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
10998 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:49 am to
quote:


I'd talk to him first, and if he doesn't break it off with the fiancee, still be his friend.


Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:53 am to
You can tell him you know and tell him that you disapprove. That's probably about all, although it almost definitely won't change anything. Your best friend is likely just a skeezy scumbag, and he will never change. Telling her would definitely destroy your friendship. I probably wouldn't do that. I'd probably take a mind your own business approach. You might want to decide if this is the type of friend that you want to have.
Posted by dafif5
Member since Nov 2012
629 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:55 am to
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How do you know?

It was about 1 AM and I just got back. Saw her car on the street a block from our place and thought nothing of it at first. I'm looking at pron in my room when I hear the alarm go off. He dissarms it and opens the door for 3 seconds then arms it. I look through the window and see a female walking from our place. He is a total pussy when it comes to alcohol, yet he told me he managed to down a fifth of crown apple by himself.
Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:55 am to
quote:

best friend


quote:

I feel like I need to tell her, but not sure how without ruining our friendship.



Posted by tigerdup07
Member since Dec 2007
21966 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:56 am to
stay out of it. for all you know, they might be swingers anyway
Posted by RoyalBaby
South Central
Member since Jul 2013
2256 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:59 am to
Sounds like you jelly of your best friend's sexcapades. You got the ghey for him?
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 8:59 am to
Yes
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18315 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 9:00 am to
If you were my wife's best friend and she was cheating, I'd want you to tell me. People who don't say anything are the worst, just let the spouse live in blissful ignorance.
Posted by Michael T. Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2004
8227 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 9:01 am to
So how long have you been in love with your friend's fiancée? That's the only reason I can think of for approaching her first.
Posted by LSU Fan SLU Grad
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2006
4893 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 9:02 am to
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Go PIIHB


Seriously, STFU with this stupid shite
Posted by TrueTiger
Chicken's most valuable
Member since Sep 2004
67657 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 9:02 am to
sounds like this future marriage is a divorce waiting to happen
Posted by retired trucker
midwest
Member since Feb 2015
5093 posts
Posted on 9/5/15 at 9:03 am to
don't do it
do nothing, do nothing , do nothing! get it?

it's a bad idea...don't get involved.

she will resent you telling her
and if you confront him, it'll get ugly

you should just sit back and let the storm develop all on its' own.

if she bothers to ask you, then by all means, but don't back the truck up on her....it should at least appear to be reluctant on your part, ok?!

if she don't ask, don't tell.

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do you plan on distancing yourself from your friend or not?!
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