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re: Hypothetical: Serious illness of an ex
Posted on 3/4/15 at 5:12 pm to Jim Rockford
Posted on 3/4/15 at 5:12 pm to Jim Rockford
Cover all your bases...go see her and offer help bt bring along your new smoking hot gf. You look good for offering help and you help keep her sick by seeing you are doing fine.
Posted on 3/4/15 at 5:14 pm to GeeOH
I did this once and got a good cussing.
Posted on 3/4/15 at 5:22 pm to Jim Rockford
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either a former spouse or close SO. The relationship ended badly and your are not in contact. You hear that ex is now dealing with serious health issues. Do you contact them with sympathy, offers to help, whatever? Or do you just leave well enough alone.
I would just leave well enough alone since you haven't been in contact & relationship didn't end well. Just my opinion, but I would prefer not re-hashing/bringing up old memories & feelings of things maybe not so pleasant if I were dealing with my own illness. ... Maybe just keep a good thought or say a prayer for her recovery.
Posted on 3/4/15 at 5:26 pm to Festus
quote:a better idea would be to pray for him/her and encourage the person to accept Christ, if he or she hasn't.
Text them YOLO
Posted on 3/4/15 at 5:27 pm to Jim Rockford
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The relationship ended badly and your are not in contact.
ended badly on who's side? Did it end badly for you by her or vice versa?
If my ex was on fire I wouldn't throw shite at her to try to smother the flames but that is just me, it ended badly on my side.
Posted on 3/4/15 at 5:47 pm to REB BEER
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I don't give a shite what happens to my ex. As a matter of fact, hopefully something bad happens.
We have a winner!!!!
Posted on 3/5/15 at 12:38 am to REB BEER
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I don't give a shite what happens to my ex. As a matter of fact, hopefully something bad happens.
Posted on 3/5/15 at 12:42 am to Jim Rockford
Send flowers, wipe hands clean of situation
Posted on 3/5/15 at 3:39 am to Jim Rockford
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Do you contact them with sympathy, offers to help, whatever? Or do you just leave well enough alone.
Depends. Probably wouldn't so much as text.
Posted on 3/5/15 at 6:06 am to Jim Rockford
No. Divorced first wide many many years ago and have not spoken since that time.
My act of sympathy toward her was the six (6) years I spent married to her. No hard feelings toward each other, just a bad match. I don't wish her ill, but she remarried and clearly has other loved ones to fill a sympathetic role. I remarried as well and with both of us happy there is no need to revisit the past.
My act of sympathy toward her was the six (6) years I spent married to her. No hard feelings toward each other, just a bad match. I don't wish her ill, but she remarried and clearly has other loved ones to fill a sympathetic role. I remarried as well and with both of us happy there is no need to revisit the past.
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