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re: How empathetic do you think you are?

Posted on 3/5/14 at 10:55 am to
Posted by dante
Kingwood, TX
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 10:55 am to
With age I think I have become more "hardened/immune" to empathetic situations, especially on a macro level. I think the closer someone is to a given situation (family, friends, acquaintances) the more empathy they can feel.
Posted by trackfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:10 am to
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Empathy has virtually nothing to do with politics. Politics simply determines nature of solution in response to empathetic cause

You seem to be contradicting yourself. If a solution is based on response to an empathetic cause, how can you say empathy has no bearing on politics? If a person can empathize with a particular problem, they're more likely to want to use the government to address it. If a person can't empathize, they'll be inclined address a problem with tough love. I don't have much empathy for derelict parents. I wish the government would do more to hold them accountable.
This post was edited on 3/5/14 at 11:12 am
Posted by NC_Tigah
Carolinas
Member since Sep 2003
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:16 am to
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You seem to be contradicting yourself.
Not at all.

Two folks pass an alcoholic homeless man on the street as he's begging for $5 and something to drink. Both are highly empathetic. One hands the the poor fellow $5 and a pint of whiskey. The other hands him directions to an AA sponsored shelter and detox program.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:23 am to
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If a person can empathize with a particular problem, they're more likely to want to use the government to address it.

the bolded part is not true, and it falls in line with

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Politics simply determines nature of solution in response to empathetic cause

government is a type of solution. it is not the ONLY solution
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:24 am to
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Two folks pass an alcoholic homeless man on the street as he's begging for $5 and something to drink. Both are highly empathetic. One hands the the poor fellow $5 and a pint of whiskey. The other hands him directions to an AA sponsored shelter and detox program.

don't forget the third, who tells him how to sign up for a medicaid card and food stamps
Posted by Zach
Gizmonic Institute
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:26 am to
I care very much for the people in my orb. Wife, family, friends, co-workers, etc.

If I read a story about some schmuck who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge because he went broke, I don't care at all. I don't care about society at large. I don't want society to care about me. I want society to leave me the hell alone.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:40 am to
its very important to be empathetic. I am not particularly empathetic but its something I am working on.
Posted by trackfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:43 am to
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Two folks pass an alcoholic homeless man on the street as he's begging for $5 and something to drink. Both are highly empathetic. One hands the the poor fellow $5 and a pint of whiskey. The other hands him directions to an AA sponsored shelter and detox program.

Let's take it a little further. Three people walk past an alcoholic homeless beggar. One shakes his head and keeps on walking. The second gives him money. The third brings him to an AA-sponsored shelter. Both #2 and #3 displayed empathy, but I would fall into the third category. Just telling him to go to a shelter isn't much different than walking past him IMO.

For the record, I've never given a beggar money outside of a convenience store or at a gas station, but occasionally, I have pumped a couple of bucks of gasoline into a car of soomeone who had run out of gas.
Posted by trackfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:44 am to
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government is a type of solution. it is not the ONLY solution

I agree with this.
Posted by trackfan
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:48 am to
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If I read a story about some schmuck who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge because he went broke, I don't care at all. I don't care about society at large. I don't want society to care about me. I want society to leave me the hell alone.

I think it's normal to be more emotional about someone who you have a personal connection to than someone who you don't. During the Iraq War, I wasn't any more affected by news of Americans getting killed than I was by news of Iraqis getting killed, but when I heard news that my co-worker's nephew had gotten killed, that did affect me.
Posted by trackfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:50 am to
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I am not particularly empathetic but its something I am working on.

This describes me too.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:56 am to
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I agree with this.

this is all this discussion really comes down to. as with many political discussions, it boils down to: how much government?

go look at the thread i linked earlier in this thread and you'll see my thoughts on the underlying discussion
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:57 am to
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Charitable giving is far more empathetic. It's not forced.


Absolutely agree. If you really care about other people, do something. Stop trying to force other people to do something.

Posted by Zach
Gizmonic Institute
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 11:59 am to
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During the Iraq War, I wasn't any more affected by news of Americans getting killed than I was by news of Iraqis getting killed, but when I heard news that my co-worker's nephew had gotten killed, that did affect me.


Thanks for jogging a brain cell from way back.
Dan Rather was in a round table discussion on TV.

The hypo: "Dan, if you were with North Vietnam forces covering the war and they were about to ambush a US patrol and you had a way of warning the American troops without your North Vietnamese group knowing you did it....would you send out the secret warning and save American lives?"

Dan: "No."
Posted by trackfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 12:05 pm to
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The hypo: "Dan, if you were with North Vietnam forces covering the war and they were about to ambush a US patrol and you had a way of warning the American troops without your North Vietnamese group knowing you did it....would you send out the secret warning and save American lives?"

Dan: "No."

I assume that if a reporter is embedded with enemy troops, there are ground rules set about what can and can't be reported. Perhaps such a reporter should be criticized for agreeing to be embedded with enemy troops in the first place.
Posted by trackfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 12:10 pm to
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Absolutely agree. If you really care about other people, do something. Stop trying to force other people to do something.

Of course you can help those in immediate proximity to you on a micro level, but there are some types of help that its not practical for an individual to give. For example, how would an individual go about improving the quality of schools in a poor district?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261690 posts
Posted on 3/5/14 at 12:13 pm to
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Of course you can help those in immediate proximity to you on a micro level, but there are some types of help that its not practical for an individual to give. For example, how would an individual go about improving the quality of schools in a poor district?


Volunteer.
Posted by Zach
Gizmonic Institute
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Posted on 3/5/14 at 12:15 pm to
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I assume that if a reporter is embedded with enemy troops, there are ground rules set about what can and can't be reported. Perhaps such a reporter should be criticized for agreeing to be embedded with enemy troops in the first place.


No. You didn't read my Hypo carefully. Rather was assured that there would be NO repercussions physically or with access in the future to North Viet Congs. The question was designed to test objectivity.

Rather said he'd let the Americans die.
Posted by NC_Tigah
Carolinas
Member since Sep 2003
124192 posts
Posted on 3/5/14 at 12:15 pm to
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Let's take it a little further. Three people walk past an alcoholic homeless beggar.
You can expand this to any number of iterations. If the homeless guy is in Moore, Oklahoma, maybe well-meaning police kill him while trying to obtain ID in order to move him to the shelter?

The point being, empathy drives a response to help. Political viewpoint determines what form that response will take.

One political mindset responds empathetically through expansion of dependency, the other responds through the enabling of independency. Both responses stem from similar empathy. However, each takes very different action based on political mindset.

This post was edited on 3/5/14 at 12:37 pm
Posted by Godfather1
What WAS St George, Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
79960 posts
Posted on 3/5/14 at 12:24 pm to
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Rather said he'd let the Americans die.


Due to his sense of "journalistic integrity", no doubt.
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