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re: How bad are women with borderline personality disorder?

Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:28 pm to
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:28 pm to
They are the worst. You don't know who you are and cool one minute and angry possessive the next. Stay away.
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:30 pm to
Serious question Paige, do you think this describes you?

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Borderline personality is a mental health disorder with symptoms that include emotional instability, feelings of worthlessness, insecurity, impulsivity, and impaired social relationships.


If so, how long and whatd it take to get you to accept that reality vs your made up "reality".

From what I understand BPD's have severe victim complexes. Just wondering how you overcame that.
Posted by Spock's Eyebrow
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:35 pm to
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Too late, sleepytime


Is that how you borderlines sign off for the night?
Posted by Walt OReilly
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:36 pm to
Happy birthday
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:39 pm to
Well it's easy to say I don't do all those things until I read a detailed description or my counselor relates certain behaviors to them. In which case he's right. So I think my counselor really got me out of denial
Posted by Champagne
Already Conquered USA.
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:39 pm to
Happy Birthday, Paige.

Everybody has something. Everybody has a cross to bear. Nobody's perfect. Lots of people run around with no clue how to improve themselves.

It's good that you have a path and a plan. It's good that you have your work cut out for you. Living in a fog is worse than knowing the challenge before you.

Stay strong and never quit working to better yourself. That's what great people do.
This post was edited on 5/29/15 at 8:40 pm
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:40 pm to
no. The poster sleepytime told me not to have kids but I already have one


Thanks, Walt
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:41 pm to
HBD
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:41 pm to
Aww thank you. That was so sweet

This thread was worth it for all the affirmations

I started it bored to hear horror stories. But it turned out even better


Thanks, fin
This post was edited on 5/29/15 at 8:42 pm
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:44 pm to
And I don't know what borderline personality disorder is so I can't help
Posted by Festus
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:44 pm to
If you start feeling crazy and like you're about to lose it, try posting some mirror selfies here. It will probably get you back feeling sane.
Posted by JasonL79
Member since Jan 2010
6397 posts
Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:45 pm to
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Most of the stories I hear are men who aren't honest with women. If my wife ran hot and cold and didn't take responsibility I would have never cared about her.


I don't believe it is made up at all and the stories you have heard of probably wasnt due to BPD. My ex was diagnosed by a psychiatrist.
Posted by WhoDatNC
NC
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:46 pm to
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And I don't know what borderline personality disorder is so I can't help
think Maury Povich.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:47 pm to
thanks, festy
Posted by ItalianTiger
BR
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:48 pm to
Dated one for a year. I was the best thing ever one day and the worse person the next. On a pedestal then lower than a snakes dick. Walked on egg shells and never could do enough to make her happy. Way too much effort and work. Loved her to death tho!
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:48 pm to
It's funny how so many people relate the same story over and over when BPD comes up, but it's somehow fake
Posted by Festus
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:48 pm to
Oh, and happy birthday.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:49 pm to
Again, the same sad story


Thanks, fest
Posted by Champagne
Already Conquered USA.
Member since Oct 2007
48357 posts
Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:52 pm to
quote:

Aww thank you. That was so sweet



Thanks for the compliment.

It's sad, really. Just about everybody has some personal problem or condition that threatens to defeat them. Hardly anybody will admit it, though.

Buddhism teaches that Life is Suffering. I'm not really a Buddhist, but, there's a lot of truth in that.

It's great that you have a plan to attack this problem. No matter how many times you have a setback, don't quit attacking the problem.

Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 5/29/15 at 8:54 pm to
don't know much about BPD. Had a female friend who was deep into intense therapy. Took her out to eat one night and she explained what it was like. She was very vulnerable emotionally and cried several times. But she felt she was making good progress.
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