Message Posted by bryso That's the most absurd thing I gave heard. What people are wearing doesn't make something fancy or not fancy.... But it does make it uptight as frick.
Why have a wedding in a nice church and not in a shitty one? Why have a reception at a nice venue and not a shitty one? Why shell out money for flowers and decorations?
You add to the experience whether you like it or not. If you have a beach wedding or some ceremony at the lions club, then fine, wear your jeans and steel toes