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Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:05 am
Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:05 am
Just got off the phone with my Brother. He has a daughter in the 4th grade. Yesterday at lunch, while seated at a table with several classmates, the kids were playing 'I Spy'. One little girl, who is AA, was 'it'. She said, "I spy something black". My niece, said "Is it you?".

The AA student told the teacher who sent an email home last night. Niece had to apologize, write a note of apology and I guess get a note from home saying the email was received and the parents talked to her.

And this is where we find ourselves.
Posted by SidewalkDawg
Chair
Member since Nov 2012
9820 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:06 am to
You're brother is an a-hole for raising such an observant brat.
Posted by muricanman
Member since Dec 2015
108 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:07 am to
she had to apologize for being observant?
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7193 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:08 am to
I can understand making it clear to her that some things could be considered insensitive, but a letter of apology? I'd be at that school and it would either stop or we'd change schools.
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
51865 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:09 am to
quote:

Is it you?


Posted by TDcline
American Gardens building 11th flor
Member since Aug 2015
9281 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:10 am to
Racism = When a white person speaks to a black person about anything, ever.

Although there are some cases when white people are allowed to speak to black people but must do so on both knees, proclaiming white privilege, and begging for forgiveness.
This post was edited on 1/19/17 at 8:12 am
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
34777 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:10 am to
That's great
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20042 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:11 am to
What is insensitive about her answer when the girl is obviously black?

Signed, IMaybe Insensitive Asswell.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35182 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:11 am to
quote:

"Is it you?"


If she whispered it then I don't see the problem.
Posted by dlee65
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
20 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:11 am to
if you were to get offended in this situation then you suck.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27428 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:12 am to
quote:

Is it you?"


Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38551 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:12 am to


My youngest daughter, age 8, recently said something along the lines of "I got dis" instead of "I have this."

I asked what did you say? She said I'm just talking like those brown people. So apparently brown is the new black at her school.
Posted by PTBob
Member since Nov 2010
7071 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:13 am to
With race be constantly thrown in our faces and and the current social climate, can we really be surprised the kids first guess was her black friend?

I'd be more shocked if she didn't say that tbh.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:14 am to
The unfortunate lesson a fourth grader might take away from the incident is don't associate with black people....
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5479 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:14 am to
quote:

I spy something black". My niece, said "Is it you?".


Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:15 am to
Two things to consider...at least.

It would have been clever for the black girl to use herself, I guess.

If the roles had been reversed...course of action? (Well none b/c my niece wouldn't have gone to the teacher since no offense was intended.) But even if she had, these things would not be required of Shon'tavi''a....or whatever her name is.
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7193 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:15 am to
quote:

What is insensitive about her answer when the girl is obviously black? 


Agreed. But I do get just helping her understand what could potentially trigger people in today's society. Also understand the school's desire to not be sued, but I wouldn't stand for my kid being made into the villain like this.
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
51865 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:17 am to
why would your brother name his daughter Shontavia?
Posted by ithad2bme
Houston transplant from B.R.
Member since Sep 2008
3468 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:19 am to
quote:

Racism = When a white person speaks to a black person about anything, ever.


You are forgetting about implied racism.

I teach my kids to evaluate every person based on who they are and not some arbitrary label. The problem using that logic is that the perpetual victim and those who teach kids to act this way annoy the crap out of me, and I don't like them. They assume it is because of the color of their skin, when that has nothing to do with it.
Posted by Eric Stratton
Faber College
Member since Mar 2015
2049 posts
Posted on 1/19/17 at 8:20 am to
Solid Lesson.... teaching kids not to play with the other race EVER. What a great way to promote inclusion.
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