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re: Do you ever talk to your exes?

Posted on 1/12/14 at 2:01 pm to
Posted by itawambadog
America, F Yeah!
Member since Nov 2007
21266 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 2:01 pm to
Haven't talked to any of mine in a long time. Their loss though.
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
11434 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 2:09 pm to
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I don't really know to be honest. I don't ask to avoid an argument.


Well it seems like you really like her and may be into the relationship deeper than her.

I've been there and got burned because she was talking to her ex. Looking back I also wanted to avoid conflict and was biding my time until she got done with the semester. That was a mistake. When I finally decided to confront her when she got done with the semester, her ex had convinced her he had changed (that blew up in her face so now she texts me when she's lonely, but she's really scared to try anything new [confirmed by her friends, not just my opinion]) and it was too late.
Posted by Warfarer
Dothan, AL
Member since May 2010
12125 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 2:15 pm to
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I never do cause it helps me move on. But ive got friends that think thats weird and still text their exes cause they're friends and what not.

What do y'all do?



I have one ex, my big one that I dated for about 5 years, that I wouldn't take a shite on if she were on fire. It ended poorly and I have zero respect for her so I have zero desire to be in the same room as her.

I have three other exes around here that I have no issues with at all, they ended on good terms and I have hung out with them in a social environment on a few occasions. I don't go out of my way to hang with them though and I never text them or call them.
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36353 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 2:49 pm to
quote:

Unfortunately have to deal with my most recent ex on a regular basis, & it blows.


May have a class or 2 with my ex. I already feel shitty and this would make it worse.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12449 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 3:20 pm to
My dog

It really does suck tho, ended things a little more than a month ago. We're both heavily involved on campus with Greek life & other organizations, have the same group of friends, she's always at the bar I work at, etc. etc. We pretty much don't have a choice but to see each other. Worst part is we're both still crazy about each other but both know it would never work again because she still wants to run wild & I would never trust her again.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20029 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 3:44 pm to
I have moved on but have no issue with a conversation with an ex.
Posted by Lazy But Talented
Member since Aug 2011
14444 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 3:55 pm to
I did last night for the first time in about a month. She slapped me in the face.

Don't know why she's so salty when she's the one who ended things.
This post was edited on 1/12/14 at 3:56 pm
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36353 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 4:12 pm to
quote:

My dog It really does suck tho, ended things a little more than a month ago. We're both heavily involved on campus with Greek life & other organizations, have the same group of friends, she's always at the bar I work at, etc. etc. We pretty much don't have a choice but to see each other. Worst part is we're both still crazy about each other but both know it would never work again because she still wants to run wild & I would never trust her again.

Right back at you.

Worst part about mine is I really only hung out with her and a few other people. I have to make new friends this semester which sucks. Feels like I am back to square one. I get annoyed with people pretty easily and she was the only person I could tolerate for hours on end.
Posted by Nashty
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Mar 2012
3679 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 4:37 pm to
Naw, had to cut the most recent one off completely. Like you said, helped me to move on a lot faster than if we would have kept talking or seeing each other.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 5:16 pm to
Don't talk to them, but still have the nudes
Posted by GenesChin
The Promise Land
Member since Feb 2012
37706 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 6:16 pm to
My last ex I talk to occasionally. We broke up because we moved apart and agreed to go separate ways. When I am back in town and see her though it brings up old feelings so I hate it and try to avoid her.

Great person and wish her the best though
Posted by Bham4Tide
In a Van down by the River
Member since Feb 2011
22091 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 6:18 pm to
I avoid my ex like the plague. No way jack.
Posted by RougeTiger
The Field, LA
Member since Sep 2009
1591 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 7:17 pm to
Staying on good terms with an ex is absolutely one of the hardest things to do in this life. My most recent ex and I decided to end things mutually after almost 4 years. A week later and she has my phone number blocked and also has me blocked from all social networking. I was so nice and supportive of the whole thing and tried my best to make things easier on her, then I hear that she is going around telling her friends and family that she "had" to block me because I was blowing up her phone... wtf bro?


TL;DR---bishes be crazy
This post was edited on 1/12/14 at 7:19 pm
Posted by Lazy But Talented
Member since Aug 2011
14444 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 7:26 pm to
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bishes be crazy


That is a fact.
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36353 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 7:42 pm to
quote:

Staying on good terms with an ex is absolutely one of the hardest things to do in this life. My most recent ex and I decided to end things mutually after almost 4 years. A week later and she has my phone number blocked and also has me blocked from all social networking. I was so nice and supportive of the whole thing and tried my best to make things easier on her, then I hear that she is going around telling her friends and family that she "had" to block me because I was blowing up her phone... wtf bro?


Bishes be cray. They hate you more for being better than they are. It's a fact.
Posted by TXGunslinger10
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2011
17995 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 8:07 pm to
Once a year.

Our birthdays were 5 days apart, so we wish eachother a happy birthday and that's about it.
Posted by catfish 62
Atlanta
Member since Mar 2010
4911 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 8:22 pm to
All my exes live in Texas
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 8:23 pm to
DP
This post was edited on 1/12/14 at 8:26 pm
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 8:25 pm to
quote:

Staying on good terms with an ex is absolutely one of the hardest things to do in this life. My most recent ex and I decided to end things mutually after almost 4 years. A week later and she has my phone number blocked and also has me blocked from all social networking. I was so nice and supportive of the whole thing and tried my best to make things easier on her, then I hear that she is going around telling her friends and family that she "had" to block me because I was blowing up her phone... wtf bro?


That seems to be normal for these bitches, it just means she was fricking someone within the first week you guys broke up. She will 100% come crawling back once she realized how badly she fricked up!
Posted by DrSteveBrule
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
12007 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 8:52 pm to
I got one that texts me once every 2 months or so.

It normally ends up being a very short conversation.
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