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Cut-off time for spouse receiving text messages from co-worker?

Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:28 am
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38551 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:28 am
My friend, Bill Clover recently brought to my attention a situation that involves his spouse.

Bill said that he noticed his spouse has been receiving text messages either very late at night (after 10 p.m.), very early in the morning (around 5 a.m.) or on weekends from his co-worker. For this discussion, we will call the co-worker Jill and Bill's spouse, we will call him Phil.

Bill has checked Phil's phone and the messages that he has read all seem appropriate and work related when coming from Jill.

Bill, mostly secure, is worried that Jill is interested in Phil, even though both are married and may be working to seal the deal with him while in their office environment. Jill is significantly older than Phil and Bill shared with me that Phil's one weakness is an older woman.

Bill asked me to ask the OT relationship experts ... what should be the cutoff time for text messages received from opposite sex co-workers?



Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:29 am to
She's fricking him
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:29 am to
time 0

she's cheating or wants to
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:30 am to
Sounds gay
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:30 am to
well Jill's a girl and it sounds like Bill and Phil are in a gay relationship so I dont think Bill has to worry
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:31 am to
quote:

Bill asked me to ask the OT relationship experts ... what should be the cutoff time for text messages received from opposite sex co-workers?


5pm


Bill should probably check her facebook messenger. Does Mrs. Clover have snapchat?
This post was edited on 3/16/17 at 8:32 am
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:31 am to
Unless either is a doctor on call, after 10pm is weird.


The answer is 8pm.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20897 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:31 am to
quote:

, mostly secure, is worried that Jill is interested in Phil, even though both are married and may be working to seal the deal with him while in their office environment. Jill is significantly older than Phil and Bill shared with me that Phil's one weakness is an older woman.


Posted by PaperPaintball92
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Member since Aug 2010
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:31 am to
quote:

Jill


Pics?
This post was edited on 3/16/17 at 8:36 am
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
53425 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:31 am to
There is a new girl (married) at my office who looks like Christina Hendricks in Mad Men, it's starting to get flirty between us and I have been thinking about this. Hopefully, I don't send any blacked out texts to her while I am out of the office drinking and watching college hoops tomorrow.
This post was edited on 3/16/17 at 8:34 am
Posted by CorporateTiger
Member since Aug 2014
10700 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:32 am to
Well if Phil is married to Bill, I don't think Jill poses much of a threat. Now Steve or John may be an issue.
Posted by Anonymous95
Member since Sep 2014
2077 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:32 am to
Wait, Bill and Phil are married and Jill is trying to bang Phil? Jill knows Phil is gay?
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38551 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:32 am to
quote:


5pm


Bill should probably check her facebook messenger. Does Mrs. Clover have snapchat?


I do not know if Phil has a Snapchat. Bill did not bring this up to me.
Posted by LSU_Saints_Hornets
Uptown NO,LA
Member since Jan 2013
9739 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:33 am to
Tell Bill stop cock blocking his wife is addicted to the D
Posted by The Torch
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Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:33 am to
Why did she give him her number ?

That's always the trigger
Posted by SabiDojo
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:33 am to
So Phil's gay husband is worried that some woman is going to steal his bottom piece away? That's 2017 for ya.
This post was edited on 3/16/17 at 8:34 am
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38551 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:33 am to
quote:


Unless either is a doctor on call, after 10pm is weird.


The answer is 8pm


I recommended 9 p.m. to him but I believe your suggestion may be more appropriate.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32551 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:33 am to
Cut off time is 1 hour after work. But to be clear, those 2 are fricking around.
And wait, are the spouses Bill and Phil? Are they both guys? Is Phil wanting to switch back to team straight to get a Cougar, Jill?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124311 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:34 am to
quote:

Bill should proibably check her facebook messenger. Does Mrs. Clover have snapchat?



Yup. The innocent texts might be code for "Get on somewhere we can talk dirty and I can send you pictures of my snizz"
Posted by DGauTigers
Behind this computer...
Member since Nov 2016
743 posts
Posted on 3/16/17 at 8:34 am to
quote:

Bill said that he


quote:

Bill's spouse, we will call him Phil.


If Phil is with Bill, then why would there be an attraction to Jill. Is he switch hitting?

Cutoff 8PM.
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