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Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:19 pm to jmcs68
You said let them take a bath solo.
I think the weirdos in this thread are the "at no age is it appropriate" folks. They're obviously the ones who view the interaction in a sexual way. Considering that, it's probably best if they never shower with their children at any age. But don't assume everyone is as disturbed as you.
I think the weirdos in this thread are the "at no age is it appropriate" folks. They're obviously the ones who view the interaction in a sexual way. Considering that, it's probably best if they never shower with their children at any age. But don't assume everyone is as disturbed as you.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:20 pm to Paige
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But I'm speaking to someone who is disgusted that I get naked in front of my fricking dog
Why would you torture that poor dog like that?
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:20 pm to Mizzou to my Lou
My son would hop in the shower with his dad until he was prob 4? Saved time when we were all getting ready to go somewhere. He NEVER showered with me. My daughter (4) has never showered with me or her dad. Never will. We both oversee her bath, depending on who is available. Stopped checking in on my son while he was showering alone at about 7. If he has some "man problem", my husband deals with it. I suppose. I don't ask.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:21 pm to fr33manator
I still don't see the point. Doesn't seem very productive
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:21 pm to cwill
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I think the weirdos in this thread are the "at no age is it appropriate" folks. They're obviously the ones who view the interaction in a sexual way.
Nail - Head
People turn things into sexual experiences, not the kids getting bathed. Sick people in this thread.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:21 pm to fr33manator
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But I fall on the side of, no harm, no foul.
I disagree, and I think most people in this thread, and most medical and mental health professionals do as well. There is an age where it is inappropriate for parents and children to shower together. And that doesn't make everyone else besides you prudes, despite what you believe.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:30 pm to cwill
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You said let them take a bath solo.
Yes solo as in the parent not with them in the bath or shower but supervising and assisting. And to each his own, this is just my opinion.
I honestly don't give a flip if you bathe or shower with your kid.. I won't be paying for his or her therapy.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:32 pm to jmcs68
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I won't be paying for his or her therapy.
Why would this happen? You really believe that a 1 year old showering with their mom or dad will cause them mental health issues?
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:33 pm to WoWyHi
And to clarify I'm just saying it really doesn't seem productive to shower with your kid. Not saying it's wrong. And as someone pointed out, maybe it's different if you're same sex. Still don't see the point though
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:35 pm to jmcs68
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Calm down it was a joke.
Ok, but some people really believe that. I agree with a few people here. Festus made a good point that at some age, it does become inappropriate. I also agree with another poster that if you child is uncomfortable with it, it is most definitely inappropriate.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:39 pm to WoWyHi
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1 year old
Well, did you answer the thread question that way? Not back tracking.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:41 pm to WoWyHi
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Festus made a good point that at some age, it does become inappropriate. I also agree with another poster that if you child is uncomfortable with it, it is most definitely inappropriate.
I agree with all of this.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:41 pm to WoWyHi
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People turn things into sexual experiences, not the kids getting bathed. Sick people in this thread.
Yup. I guess the same people feel like molesters every time they change their kids diaper... Because that is WAY more up close and personal than a shower.
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad my daughter is finally potty trained. Those were the worst
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:44 pm to Festus
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And that doesn't make everyone else besides you prudes, despite what you believe.
I'm more talking about the general prudishness towards nudity in some segments of society...I.e the people who would turn kids skinny dipping into sex offenders
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:45 pm to Mizzou to my Lou
I had a female friend, who, if pressed for time, would get her son and daughter (maybe age 7 or 8 and 5) and they would all take a shower together. Sometimes it was just the kids together in the shower.
It helped keep the kids from piddling around and got them both clean at the same time.
I see nothing wrong with it occasionally if the kids are young. If they're pushing puberty, then that's a different story.
It helped keep the kids from piddling around and got them both clean at the same time.
I see nothing wrong with it occasionally if the kids are young. If they're pushing puberty, then that's a different story.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:48 pm to Red Stick Tigress
Probably 7 or so unless either the child or parent feels uncomfortable with it before then.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 7:49 pm to Red Stick Tigress
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If they're pushing puberty, then that's a different story.
Well I hope so!
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