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Posted on 6/5/14 at 9:11 am to StraightCashHomey21
Its crazy how the people who want kids have miscarriages but the unplanned o shite people never do.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 9:16 am to StraightCashHomey21
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Its crazy how the people who want kids have miscarriages but the unplanned o shite people never do
If I had a nickel for every time I said this over the last three years, I'd have my son's college fund ready to go already. It's better to not worry about everyone else.
It happens so much more than is even reported, so chances are there are a lot of pieces of shite who got a "freebie" and may have never known.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 11:00 am to DawgCountry
My wife and I went through this a year and a half ago. It was tough. She went through all the hormone swings and even self blame. The best thing I did was assure her that I married her for her and if we couldn't have kids then we'd just be the aunt and uncle the spoiled the mess out of our nieces and nephews. The other thing was surround her with happy people. She'll need some girl time with her mom, sister and girl friends. All that being said we just had a baby boy! Lots of prayers!
Posted on 6/5/14 at 1:54 pm to DawgCountry
My wife and I had it happen three separate times (the first time they were actually twins involved). Each time she miscarried the week we should have seen the heartbeat. My wife already had a son from a previous marriage and I had none. So I know it was bad on here but was bad on me also because I was not sure if we were going to be able to have any. But had all kind of genetic test done and the doctor said that nothing was out of the ordinary, that it would be like standing in front of a slot machine. If we were willing to take the chance one of them would hit. Sure enough the next pregnancy stuck and I have a healthy four year old right now. The week that we were to see the heartbeat she was so ready to hear we lost it again, I think it wasn’t till we we to the car that she believed we had crossed that hurdle.
I feel for you and hang in there.
I feel for you and hang in there.
This post was edited on 6/5/14 at 1:55 pm
Posted on 6/5/14 at 2:44 pm to MrBiriwa
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currently at 38 weeks
Awesome man
Posted on 6/5/14 at 3:04 pm to DawgCountry
our miscarriage happened on new years eve. it was pretty rough
eta: we got pregnant the first try after the suggested time off and have a health 5 year old now.
eta: we got pregnant the first try after the suggested time off and have a health 5 year old now.
This post was edited on 6/5/14 at 3:07 pm
Posted on 6/5/14 at 5:37 pm to JermStone
if your body is not ready for it this will happen.
nothing new dont cry over it. just get back to work.
nothing new dont cry over it. just get back to work.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 5:41 pm to brbowhunter
Mine had one, ob said it's pretty common early on especially in first time moms. Luckily our next try we got a son
ETA: it was a pretty awful experience, but you move on. Additionally, that is why the custom is to not announce a pregnancy until at least 12 weeks because the chance of miscarriage drops significantly after that.
ETA: it was a pretty awful experience, but you move on. Additionally, that is why the custom is to not announce a pregnancy until at least 12 weeks because the chance of miscarriage drops significantly after that.
This post was edited on 6/5/14 at 8:06 pm
Posted on 6/5/14 at 5:43 pm to DawgCountry
quote:yep
Seeing the empty ultrasound was devastating. Anyone else have to go through this before?
Ive posted about it in the past, if you need someone to talk to ask Chicken for my contact info
Allow yourself to grieve, I know you want to be there for your wife and you should. But you also suffered a loss, its OK for you to be a little selfish.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 6:43 pm to OWLFAN86
Yes - We have a daughter 20 and a 16 old son. The child that miscarried would have been #2, so the son would have never been born.
The son is a great kid and my hunting buddy. I wouldn't change God's plan for the world.
My college buddy is an OBGYN, he told me every kid that is born is a miracle, when like him you know everything that can go wrong.
Miscarriages happen to lot of people, its just that most don't let anyone know about it because it usually happens so early in the pregnancy.
Sorry for your loss.
The son is a great kid and my hunting buddy. I wouldn't change God's plan for the world.
My college buddy is an OBGYN, he told me every kid that is born is a miracle, when like him you know everything that can go wrong.
Miscarriages happen to lot of people, its just that most don't let anyone know about it because it usually happens so early in the pregnancy.
Sorry for your loss.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 6:47 pm to DawgCountry
Hang in there. It sucks. We lost one of our twins 7 months into the pregnancy and had another miscarriage in April of this year. It'sdevastaing.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 6:50 pm to Tiger Ryno
How far along we're y'all in April?
Posted on 6/5/14 at 6:54 pm to BRgetthenet
13 weeks.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 6:56 pm to Tiger Ryno
Man.
Any other miscarriage?
This thread is eye opening.
Any other miscarriage?
This thread is eye opening.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 7:03 pm to BRgetthenet
One of our twins miscarried 7 months in. He was the brother of my 2 year old son. My son is fine. We had no explanation. Thankful for the two healthy kids I have.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 7:08 pm to DawgCountry
My grandmother, who was a neo-natal nurse for 30 years told my aunt this after her miscarriage:
Nature's way off saying there was something wrong with the baby. Don't trouble yourself too hard.
It may sound harsh, but it is accurate.
There will be other opportunities, as my aunt learned.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 7:21 pm to DawgCountry
Sister in law did. Sucked. You guys will make it happen in time! Practice is the best part.
Posted on 6/5/14 at 7:28 pm to BRgetthenet
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This thread is eye opening
I agree. I had no idea this many people would have the same bad news. We're just waiting to see what God has in store for us
Posted on 6/5/14 at 7:34 pm to DawgCountry
Our 4th was and it is really sad. Good news is that your wife hopefully can still try again. We did and had our 5th after getting pregnant only a couple of months later.
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