re: Most challenging parenting years

I have 5: 20 years - 3 months.

Infants are physically the hardest. They can’t tell you what hurts or why they’re crying. The odd sleep patterns. Being completely dependent on you.

Putting in the work for toddlers-preteens is also difficult. Staying on top of positive reinforcement, discipline, homework, activities, sports etc. to ensure they are developing a well rounded character.

Teens are less dependent but still difficult. Driving is scary as hell. First dates and subsequent first break-ups. Especially girls...yeesh! The text “dad can you get me some pads when you go to the store please” is like a little electric shock every time.

But overall it’s the young adult that’s been most challenging to me. As a parent you’ve raised them to be independent, confident, driven, self reliant, etc. so that’s what they do. They move out and up. Start dating. Start working. Focused on school.

But every now and then I catch a glimpse of that infant I rocked to sleep in that 20 year olds eyes, regardless how thick his beard is and wish to have it all back. It has allowed me to appreciate my younger ones so much more.