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Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:02 pm to
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:02 pm to
If he’s a deadbeat sperm donor that ran out on them long ago that’s one thing. But if he’s in their lives and doing what he can it’s very disrespectful.


Every situation is different, sure. But if their real father is in the picture you won’t ever replace him
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55525 posts
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:05 pm to
Agreed. My folks have been split for a while, too, and I refer to my dad's wife exactly as that - she isn't even my stepmom. She is my dad's wife. We are friends and are very cool with each other, but she hasn't played any kind of motherly role at all for me.
Posted by Macavity92
Member since Dec 2004
5999 posts
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:36 pm to
quote:

If he’s a deadbeat sperm donor that ran out on them long ago that’s one thing. But if he’s in their lives and doing what he can it’s very disrespectful. 


Every situation is different, sure. But if their real father is in the picture you won’t ever replace him


My stepdaughter's dad introduces me as her "other dad". And no, we're not gay lovers. I married her mother. He and I get along very well. We keep in mind that she is the most important person and everything works from there We respect each other. I am not worried about all of the other BS. And yes, I have biologicals.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 10/9/18 at 9:57 pm to
quote:

he’s a deadbeat sperm donor that ran out on them long ago that’s one thing. But if he’s in their lives and doing what he can it’s very disrespectful.

nah

That is silly. My daughter can love a stepparent and it doesn’t change our relationship one but. I love her, she loves me. I’d be perfectly fine if her step dad loves her enough to refer to her as his daughter.

My wife is her step mom. My wife refers to her as our daughter. My ex wife is a great mother.
This post was edited on 10/9/18 at 9:58 pm
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