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Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:47 pm
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:47 pm
I’m a stepdad, and my wife thinks I should refer to my stepson and stepdaughter as son and daughter. Do you refer to your stepchildren that way?
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Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:48 pm to TigerVespamon
It depends on how old they were when you took over, and the degree to which their biological father plays a role in their life.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:48 pm to TigerVespamon
I can’t speak for real life, but in the porn videos they do.
This post was edited on 10/9/18 at 5:49 pm
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:49 pm to TigerVespamon
I'm not in this situation but if it doesn't come natural don't do it but at some point it will.
This post was edited on 10/9/18 at 5:50 pm
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:49 pm to TigerVespamon
It depends on which pornhub channel you upload the videos.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:49 pm to TigerVespamon
quote:
I’m a stepdad, and my wife thinks I should refer to my stepson and stepdaughter as son and daughter. Do you refer to your stepchildren that way?
What do the kids think?
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:50 pm to TigerVespamon
I’ve had a stepdad and stepmom for close to 18 years and that would weird me out unless someone just calls me their son. In that situation I don’t correct them just because it’s a common misconception.
I also think it’s weird if they say they ‘love you’ but it differs in every situation obviously.
FWIW, I like both of my stepparents
I also think it’s weird if they say they ‘love you’ but it differs in every situation obviously.
FWIW, I like both of my stepparents
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:50 pm to TigerVespamon
Yes, I made it a point to make him feel just as loved as my own son and it was easy, he’s a good kid.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:54 pm to TigerVespamon
As a dad, I don’t want any other man calling my kids their son or daughter. Or them calling another man dad.
I’m their dad. They don’t need another one.
I’m their dad. They don’t need another one.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:56 pm to TigerVespamon
Just don't ever forget she had their real daddy's dong in her mouth multiple times.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:05 pm to TigerVespamon
its their place to lead, if they call you by name or stepdad then call them by name of step whatever
if they call you dad then call them son and/or daughter in return
if they are very young then by default i would call them son and/or daughter
if they call you dad then call them son and/or daughter in return
if they are very young then by default i would call them son and/or daughter
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:06 pm to TigerVespamon
I am a step kid to a step father, and if he ever did this it would be weird. Forced.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:10 pm to TigerVespamon
If Dad is actively involved in life of the kids, then don't fall for her trap.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:10 pm to TigerVespamon
Let it come natural don’t start forcing. Trust me no kid hates a step parent more than the parent who tries to force it.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:15 pm to TigerVespamon
“The kids”, “My kid” are both acceptable to use no matter the conversation. You can also use their ages- “My 12 year old said/did...”
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:18 pm to TigerVespamon
Is your wife cool with the kids calling the father's wife "mom"?
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:23 pm to TigerVespamon
I'm a step child...do not do this.
ETA: my stepdad raised me and I am closer to him than my real dad by far.
ETA: my stepdad raised me and I am closer to him than my real dad by far.
This post was edited on 10/9/18 at 6:24 pm
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:30 pm to TigerVespamon
Son reference - I’ve known them sense they were 6 and 10. Over 24 years
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:30 pm to TigerVespamon
I always refer the my stepdaughter as my daughter unless the distinction makes a difference. I treat her just like I would a biological daughter. No reason to refer to her as step.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:38 pm to TigerVespamon
I generally refer to my stepkids as just “my kids”, but go into more specifics as needed.
It’s easier to do so with kids who are with you most of the time vs ones who are mainly with the other parent most of the time.
It’s easier to do so with kids who are with you most of the time vs ones who are mainly with the other parent most of the time.
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