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re: Guys with kids who don't want anything to do with them while their exwife remarries
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:38 am to Evil Little Thing
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:38 am to Evil Little Thing
Ah ok
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Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:39 am to Evil Little Thing
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I have to believe people in this situation could see the writing on the wall long before it came to this. We blind ourselves to crazy. It's not like she was perfectly normal & went nuts one day. People need to choose better partners.
There’s another scenario - she was normal at the beginning and sank into crazy as life slowly kicked in and she realized she wouldn’t always be beautiful and marriage and motherhood isn’t this fairytale Disney convinced her it would be.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:39 am to Evil Little Thing
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I can't imagine having kids and only seeing them every other weekend. Or not at all.
You should have to pass a test for procreation. Too many of the wrong people do it.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:39 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
I'd have these people sterilized in my world. There's not much worse than abandoning a child.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:40 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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Seriously you have to be such a shitty person that you having to pay somebody to see your kids is enough for you to be like mah, I'm good.
Sometimes it's not even that.
My SO's ex is an on again/off again heroin addict. Maintains a job usually in a restaurant getting paid cash so he doesn't have to pay child support. Might call his daughter 1-2x a year usually birthday/christmas.
frick him. We dont need his money and his kid is being raised in a loving 2 parent household with everything she needs.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:40 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
To be fair, many of these bitches and only allow the fathers to see the children every other weekend and once per week. They will not deviate from the custody agreement. I am a domiciliary parent and my ex has access to the children anytime she wants
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:41 am to theunknownknight
quote:no it's the same sex scenario just starting at an earlier point. This thread is about deadbeat dads not batshit women. Yes we know they exist and we are sorry you married one knight
There’s another scenario - she was normal at the beginning and sank into crazy as life slowly kicked in and she realized she wouldn’t always be beautiful and marriage and motherhood isn’t this fairytale Disney convinced her it would be.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:42 am to Evil Little Thing
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I have to believe people in this situation could see the writing on the wall long before it came to this. We blind ourselves to crazy. It's not like she was perfectly normal & went nuts one day. People need to choose better partners.
Some people are very good at hiding their crazy.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:42 am to SheManShe
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To be fair, many of these bitches and only allow the fathers to see the children every other weekend and once per week. They will not deviate from the custody agreement. I am a domiciliary parent and my ex has access to the children anytime she wants
Yes, this does happen. Bottom line, the kids shouldn't have to suffer because their parents are idiots but when one parent chooses to not see their child, it really is tragic.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:43 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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no it's the same sex scenario just starting at an earlier point. This thread is about deadbeat dads not batshit women. Yes we know they exist and we are sorry you married one knight
My marriage is fine. I’m just stating that “guys not having anything to do with kids” may be for more than one reason. Nowhere in the OP did you specificy deadbeat dads.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:43 am to SheManShe
quote:yeah but those guys are trying to see there kid some, they still want to be around them. That's not what I'm talking about
be fair, many of these bitches and only allow the fathers to see the children every other weekend and once per week
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:45 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Don't always believe what the woman tells you. My ex told her new fool all kinds of things about me that aren't true. She failed to mention what she did.
Oh, and she also told him, and her parents, that I wasn't paying child support too. When in reality, I was giving her more than what I was obligated to. She was just lying so her parents and him would give her money too. My ex just doesn't manage money well and found a sucker to support her.
Oh, and she also told him, and her parents, that I wasn't paying child support too. When in reality, I was giving her more than what I was obligated to. She was just lying so her parents and him would give her money too. My ex just doesn't manage money well and found a sucker to support her.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:45 am to theunknownknight
quote:my apologies you misinterpreted it. I was meaning don't want anything to do with them.
I’m just stating that “guys not having anything to do with kids”
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:45 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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yeah but those guys are trying to see there kid some, they still want to be around them. That's not what I'm talking about
Exactly, it's the one's who only care about themselves that have no clue how they are hurting their kids.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:46 am to theunknownknight
Edited for you
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:47 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Now my first few posts are going to look dumb
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:48 am to theunknownknight
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How about a situation where the wife cheats on husband, divorces him, convinces a judge to slap a restraining order on him (because women are insane when “protecting their children during a divorce”) and then does everything in her power to brainwash the kids and keep them away from daddy.
Maybe dad keeps trying but he just isn’t there.
This. I've seen a situation where the father tried everything he could to see his two little girls, went and picked them up every other weekend, paid child support he could not afford and was the best dad he could possibly be to them.
All to be overcome by the brainwashing of a man hating mother doing everything possible to make them hate him every other minute of the day. As the girls grew up, they became more distant from the best man I have personally known in my life. To this day he still sends them birthday and Christmas cards and small presents that his current wife helps him pick out. And the little girls, women now, send back a thank you card but never visit anymore or do much else. He keeps pictures of them in frames around his house through the years though.
All because their mother never remarried, hates men, and was jealous that the good man moved own, remarried and started a new family. A new family he made the little girls a part of as well with a new step brother they became close with. Until the ex-wifes brainwashing got to be too much.
Oh yeah, that man is my dad.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:50 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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some other man raises your kids.
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No child support amirite.
this is the situation where guys have to pay the most in child support...don't really get this statement
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:50 am to Tiger n Miami AU83
That's clearly not what I'm talking about but I'm sorry for your families troubles
Posted on 4/24/18 at 8:51 am to Topwater Trout
quote:Yeah I know that now, didn't know it worked when I made the thread not gonna edot my stupidity I'll just take the downvotes and dumbass name calling
this is the situation where guys have to pay the most in child support...don't really get this statement
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