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re: Doubt this has happened to a TDer before.
Posted on 12/31/17 at 1:51 am to HubbaBubba
Posted on 12/31/17 at 1:51 am to HubbaBubba
That's awful. I helped my wife find her birth parents. She's close with biological mother but the father rejected her. His loss because she is an amazing woman.
As I read your story I was hoping that your story would end up similarly. I think the adoptive parents were very wrong for denying your wife contact with him after he was an adult.
Adoptees always want to know, and they have a right to know who gave birth to them and what the circumstances were. It changed my wife from the better. No more unanswered questions. It didn't end in a picture perfect hallmark type scenario, but she knows the truth.
I would give the son's wife some time, but I would certainly try and contact her. Those are your wife's biological grandchildren. Who knows what the wife will do with it, but she needs to opportunity to make the decision.
It's a long process, be patient with your wife and let her make the decisions.
As I read your story I was hoping that your story would end up similarly. I think the adoptive parents were very wrong for denying your wife contact with him after he was an adult.
Adoptees always want to know, and they have a right to know who gave birth to them and what the circumstances were. It changed my wife from the better. No more unanswered questions. It didn't end in a picture perfect hallmark type scenario, but she knows the truth.
I would give the son's wife some time, but I would certainly try and contact her. Those are your wife's biological grandchildren. Who knows what the wife will do with it, but she needs to opportunity to make the decision.
It's a long process, be patient with your wife and let her make the decisions.
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Posted on 12/31/17 at 2:03 am to Beessnax
quote:Thanks, and awesome of you to be so supportive of your wife.
Beessnax
Posted on 12/31/17 at 6:26 am to Beessnax
quote:Well said. What I meant in my post as well. It may not be a hallmark card in the end, but at least they know when the doc asks for family medical history. As well as, some people have no parents and or grandparents. These kids could have two sets of paternal grandparents.
That's awful. I helped my wife find her birth parents. She's close with biological mother but the father rejected her. His loss because she is an amazing woman.
As I read your story I was hoping that your story would end up similarly. I think the adoptive parents were very wrong for denying your wife contact with him after he was an adult.
Adoptees always want to know, and they have a right to know who gave birth to them and what the circumstances were. It changed my wife from the better. No more unanswered questions. It didn't end in a picture perfect hallmark type scenario, but she knows the truth.
I would give the son's wife some time, but I would certainly try and contact her. Those are your wife's biological grandchildren. Who knows what the wife will do with it, but she needs to opportunity to make the decision.
It's a long process, be patient with your wife and let her make the decisions.
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