re: Spouses involved in succession

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got a family full of grubbers myself
I have made it clear that I want no part of any estate unless it's my own mother or father.
just leave me out of it

when my parents die I've also made it clear I want one thing and one thing only...my dads firearm collection. Everything else they can pick thru without me

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I found out just how fricking petty my aunts and cousins are when named the executor of my grandparent's will. Fighting over everything from the property and the house to 40 year old fricking dishes. I own the farm that my grandfather used to own, I bought it from him before he passed, he kept 20 acres for himself, sold me 280 , years ago. well when he passed the instructions were to sell the house and the 20 acres at market value and split the money or I had the option of buying the property myself at 75% of market value and splitting the money between my mom and the 3 aunts.

One of my aunts was fricking homeless. So I bought the damn property at 75% and let her live in the house for free. It's been 7 years my aunts still won't talk to me, somehow I screwed them over. I'm not sure how yet, but somehow me paying 75% of what the property was worth splitting it among the four of them and letting my aunt who didn't own a home (my mom and my other aunts are comfortable , not well off but comfortable) live there rent free was screwing them over.

People suck.