re: Do you hate your mother in law?

My mother-in-law sort of fits the stereotype of the nosy, judgemental Baptist but we get along well enough. Deep down she really is a kind and caring person. Now my older step-daughter's dad died in a wreck when she was two and that dude's mother hates my guts and misses no opportunity to let me know. I can understand her resentment of my relationship with her granddaughter to some degree but after years of her petty bullshite I hate her right back and don't allow her to even pull in my driveway.