re: Arguments with spouse over money

Y'all probably won't make the same amount and usually 1 person is budget oriented and the other is a free spender. The person that manages the money (it's almost always 1 person) ends up being the bad guy/girl and has to say no about some purchases/vacations etc. Give the female a free spending account, maybe a few hundred per month if yall can afford it, and make her stick to a budget otherwise if you want to be happy.