re: Friend committed suicide

My father shot himself about 17 years ago. It takes some time to come to terms with who is ultimately responsible, but you will always look at suicide differently from now on. When someone lightheartedly says, "I wanted to kill myself," it won't be "funny" anymore.

Try to release yourself from any misplaced guilt. It's a violent act that leaves victims scarred for life.

Sometimes there are warning signs and sometimes it's a complete shock. All suicidal ideations should be taken VERY seriously. I have been posting here less than a year and have seen 3 serious suicidal threads/posts from people who are reaching out. I truly wish there was a way to locate them and send help when that happens.