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re: Who here lives alone, and likes it?

Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:57 am to
Posted by GeauxGoose
Nonya
Member since Dec 2006
2517 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:57 am to
Not trying to get into details of your life, but 18 years is a good stretch. Did it happen quickly or has the separation been building up for a while? I only ask bc it's hard to imagine after so long what could happen (besides cheating) that could cause a separation? I guess you can just get tired of someone. And before someone says you need to be married to understand I've been married for 6 six years but with my wife for 12 years
Posted by IStandBytheU
Member since Sep 2016
964 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 10:04 am to
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It's hard to imagine after so long what could happen


You are clearly not yet in your 40s.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18472 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 10:05 am to
I don't live alone but would have enjoyed it if that's where life had taken me. I love my wife and kids and definitely understand the enjoyable "hum" of a full house.

But I'm also an introvert. I was an only child and really enjoy planning my day around my wants and personal responsibilities. I mean, just this morning it took 40 minutes to get through my 15 minute routine. My son woke up early and "got in the way" of taking care of the dog, getting coffee and lunch put together. He also is going through a phase where he doesn't want to go to the bathroom when he wakes up but wants to get his outfit on and then eat breakfast. So I had to convince him to go or else he'd piss his pants. He finally went to the bathroom and pissed all over the seat. So I had to clean it all up. Then he wanted cheerios for breakfast but we didn't have any so he got upset. Then my wife got up and couldn't find some piece of mail she needed to write a check for.

If I lived alone, I could wake up, make coffee, and read a book outside while waking up. Instead....

But I feel like I would get really lonely eventually. I also think way too much and would end up getting depressed.
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 10:06 am to
Everyone changes. Some more than others. How many people do you know are the same people at 45 as they were at 25? Some couples change in the same direction and other change in opposite ways.
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