re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself

She obviously has some stuff going on mentally that she hasn't disclosed to you. No offense, but she isn't very trusting in you if she hasn't discussed any problems yet. She needs to sort this out with herself and her family.

Give her space and time. Absolutely do not be up her arse about it. She'll just use you as a crutch, and if you ever break up, the same thing will happen again.

I'd just let it be, and check in from time to time.


After reading the update, it is clear that the OP just filled in the spaces where the ex wasn't there. Kind of like when you eat fries after your double stack, but before your chocolate frosty. He's the fries