re: Welp....here's a new one with the SO

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I told her that I wanted to talk to her about how to properly hold a utensil for when we go to restaurants

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Mistake #1.

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I stood outside the door and said we should be adults

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Mistake #2

In both scenarios she views you treating her like a child.

Is it really THAT big of a deal how she holds her utensil?

When she gets back you're going to get an earful of all the things you do that she views as "wrong" and I'm betting you're not going to handle it with a smile.