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re: is this a fair divorce deal?
Posted on 11/11/16 at 4:15 pm to OWLFAN86
Posted on 11/11/16 at 4:15 pm to OWLFAN86
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a lawyer will charge you about $1,237 to review this
I already have a legal team and they are being amply paid. I am not trying to take anything that is his, community property, family property, etc. I don't need it.
I have kept quiet on Fb about this, no hint of the stuff he has done or any anger. i am happy and calm and fine. No drama here.
However, knowing the OT and how many men here have been totally screwed by ex-wives, I just wanted y'all assessment of whether I am being fair or not.
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Posted on 11/11/16 at 4:19 pm to gingerkittie
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However, knowing the OT and how many men here have been totally screwed by ex-wives, I just wanted y'all assessment of whether I am being fair or not.
You started this thread because you care what a bunch of internet strangers thinks about you? Yeesh.
Posted on 11/11/16 at 4:29 pm to gingerkittie
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gingerkittie
Sorry you're going through this
If you think your proof of his wrongdoings will get you a favorable ruling from the judge, you are wrong.
LA is a no fault state when it comes to divorces. Judges divide up the property and debt evenly regardless of who cheated.
Any money brought into the family during the marriage is considered community assets and is split 50/50 but inheritances are not considered marital property therefore no split
Your offer seems more than fair. Hubby is butthurt but it will wear off
This post was edited on 11/11/16 at 4:32 pm
Posted on 11/11/16 at 9:13 pm to gingerkittie
First, and foremost, he's not being petulant child - he's being a guy. I'll be the first to admit, that during my divorce, I felt like someone was taking my stuff. During the marriage, I never felt like she was my possession - but during the divorce, she was MY wife. See what I'm saying? Luckily, I'm smart enough to recognize the lunacy in that thought process and everything went smooth after that. We had a very civil divorce, what was mine - stayed mine, what was hers - stayed her. I will say as much as you want open communication, the best thing is to cut of communication, unless through a intermediary. This will allow him to get over it. Just my .02 - good luck
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