re: Protocol for Job Offering/Opp to Match question

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Is it completely disrespectful of her to bring the negotiated salary back to the current owner and give him the opportunity to match it given the opportunity is fairly personal?

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If she leaves the company if they don't match then I don't see why she should at least give it a try. Just be straight up "I have been offered a job making x amount and I am going to accept it, but it was a difficult decision for me because I really enjoy working here. Before I give them a definite answer I want to ask if there is away you can match the salary I was offered." You can't blame anyone for accepting a job making more money.