re: Do you visit peoples gravesites?

I always visit my brothers grave on his birthday and on the day he died. I go other times as well, but always on those days.

I can't tell you why really, other than it has become a place where I can reflect in solitude. I can speak out loud to him, knowing he can't answer, but sometimes you just need to speak thing out loud, you know?

When people leave life too early, it's easy to let the memories start to fade. At first, you may think about them every day. As time wears on, life still happens for you. You get caught up in the now, as the past fades away. Well I don't want to forget my brother, so those days I go there are always keeping him in the forefront of my thoughts for at least those moments.