re: Do you visit peoples gravesites?

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They can't hear anything you say, they're dead and there's no afterlife so there's just no point to me.

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Well that sucks.

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Ha...the only way he could know for sure that there is no afterlife is if he died before, which would mean that there is indeed an afterlife.

It's a strange thing visiting graves. You can think about someone or remember them anytime & anywhere. But it is a sign of respect (though they may not know you're visiting...but you know). Visiting a grave gives you a different feeling though than if you'd just think about them at any other time. It's very quiet and it's just you there along with usually some person you loved in their final resting place (and the other thousands of strangers buried nearby wondering where the F their families are). Although strange and sometimes awkward, it is a good place to reflect. There aren't many distractions at a grave yard.