re: Stock the Bar Party location

I guess I meant more along the lines of the group of people all knowing each other well enough to hangout and me being comfortable with asking them to devote a weekend night for my event in which they have to bring a gift that cost $30-50.

I've been to probably a dozen or so weddings with friends and have never heard of this until this site.

Adding this to the already laundry list of wedding activities people have seems a bit much.