re: How long after your divorce (if ever) did you decide...

Sorry bro...but really good luck.

I waited about 5 years. Mainly because she cleaned me out and devastated me emotionally and financially. Yep, she was a cheating whore and I had no clue...busting my arse 60+ hours a week to provide the never ending list of shite she wanted. New house, new car, new furniture...still always wanting more.

Luckily the field I was in was booming...telecommunications in the mid 80's thru late 90's. My boss knew my situation and allowed me to work all the OT I could stand. After YEARS of working 70+ hour weeks I dug myself out of the financial pit she threw me into. She now lives in a fricking trailer, hates her hubby and barely lives paycheck to paycheck. I'm still in our house...it's paid for now and I have zero debt. This bitch actually had the nerve to ask me for money a few years back!

Met an awesome lady and we dated 6 years. Talking marriage and looking at houses...all of a sudden like flipping a light switch...it's over in her mind. I've come to the conclusion bitches are crazy and you never know when they'll decide to flip that switch. So I got a dog. And I wanted to add that this is why I don't believe in God...because it's not that hard to make the perfect woman. Put a dog's brain into a woman and BAM...perfection. Instead He gives us a sociopathic a-hole to be our mate in life???