re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?

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Yes, there are two kids.

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Kids can interfere for sure. This can happen when babies are awake all hours of the night and you're exhausted. Also, women do go through an emotional challenge after babies where they can feel uncomfortable about their bodies. Just reassure her she's hot still. I think you guys need to find time after your kids go to bed. Also I think you need to be the instigator and be demanding honestly. Explain to her sex is important in marriage. I promise she's looking for to be desired, don't let her reject you with stupid excuses. She's either depressed or has emotionally stepped away. This doesn't mean the end or anything like that but up to you to bring it back.