re: Kids soccer, winning or coaching more important?

Youth soccer is about development - so coaching is more important.

Let me phrase it to you like this:

He can win all the trophies he wants now (if he's truly that good) but what difference will it make when he's 20 and still doesn't know attacking tactics? No scholarships, no camp offers, no call ups. He'll just be another really athletic player.

That said, U10 is the academy and it's about development more than anything. So the choice is obvious.