re: She Wants To Wait Till Marriage

1. You're 22. Marriage should be a distant thought for you and not an end goal of r booty.

2. she is 20. Young women change their mind soooo much and very often. Lots of girls who thought they wanted to wait till marriage end up meeting some dreamy guy and throw that idea out the window.

3. I not only think it is dumb to wait till marriage, but i think it is irresponsible to do so in the current times. with divorce and ease of infidelity being what they are today, you should find someone you are entirely compatible with before you decide to get married and/or have children with that person. religious views and sex drive are two very large things that you and your future spouse should have in common.

4. due to what i stated in 3, i also think it is irresponsible for two people not to live together before getting married. it is incredibly hard to really get to know everything about a person until you live with them and learn their cleaning habits, cooking habits, sexual preferences, bathroom habits, etc... you cannot fully understand these if you are only "sleeping over there most nights" because they will always be hiding some things until after you leave. once you live together for a while, there is no hiding.