re: Is there ANYTHING that the OT can't advise on or help with?

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What are women thinking? What is it that they want?

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That one is easier than you think it is. What you have to do though, is figure out how she thinks.

Just takes observation. You can do that by putting her in situations where she'll give one or two responses only. That helps a lot.

In simple, general terms though, note this generic and should not be applied without previous instruction.

They want to be listened to. They want you to stop what you're doing and show they're more important that whatever it was.

Hint: Do it occasionally, intentionally don't do it occasionally just to aggravate them. Keeps them from tumbling to the fact you've figured them out.

One specific observation that will help you.

If she's right handed, and has 2 things she's picked out wanting you to pick between them, pick the one in her left hand. She got it first and moved it to the other hand so she could get the other one.