re: The double standard that exists for women regarding sex and kids.

My honest to God answer to all of this is that women tend to internalize other people's judgments much more than men. If you pull up your facebook feed, you will see memes of men being stupid and another child that women have to raise. You don't see any comments on these posts but a few likes and "hah" that's funny. Most men have no fricks to give.

Most of these double standards are brought on more by other women. My wife decided to stay home and raise kids. Who judged her the most? Other women in the family. Guess who probably does most of the slut shaming? Other women. I really believe we don't get the shaming because we're more impervious to the shaming. Besides I don't care about what others do with their life as much as my wife does.

We may perpetuate the shaming because it's a good laugh but most guys don't really give a shite.