re: Question to OT about an old flame

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For me, I have had a more success with the ladies and have been involved with much more attractive women (including her better looking friends) than he has so losing her wasnt something I couldnt rebound from, per se

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So, why not leave those 2 alone and stay with "better" options?

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I moved on, I really did. For my buddy, she is a catch.

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You can't get over she chose him over you. That is quite clear otherwise you wouldn't have these thoughts. You think you are all around better than your buddy even though he is your buddy. I get it, we have all been there on both sides probably.

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I have had a more success with the ladies and have been involved with much more attractive women (including her better looking friends)

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You say this and probably believe it but it doesn't make sense that she chose him over you. You don't have what they have which from the sound of it is a deep meaningful relationship. She has had a lot of time to try things out with you, in fact she probably didn't date or get engaged to your buddy without thought... Maybe she wonders about you but that is it bro, nothing more. She can be your friend, girls can but guys always read more into it.

Move on, be her friend but that's all it is bro.